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JasmineLOVE105
Dec 14, 2006, 07:27 PM
How can I heal my broken heart? My heart has been broken for the 5th time now. Every time I go out with someone then get feelings for him, he will dump me. How can I move on and find someone who won't hurt me? Should I still date?

aqua@home
Dec 14, 2006, 08:17 PM
How old are you? I'm not sure that it matters but according to some of your other posts, I think you are quite young. If this is true, please realize that most of these people you will never see again after high school. I would suggest enjoying dating and just having fun. Get to know people and figure out exactly what you want in a parter. Just relax and be yourself. When someone gets to know you and care for you, they won't hurt you, at least not intentionally. Good luck.

chuff
Dec 14, 2006, 08:27 PM
You went out with a guy for a week!! Get over it.

talaniman
Dec 14, 2006, 09:59 PM
From your other posts I gather you get deep feelings very easily. It might be better if you just enjoyed yourself and have a good time and leave those feelings at home. High school should be enjoyed because lets face it the boys are too young to get to deep with and its not worth the drama, go for fun and let the love find you when your ready. A week is not love.

vijeshnair
Dec 14, 2006, 10:11 PM
How can I heal my broken heart? My heart has been broken for the 5th time now. Every time I go out with someone then get feelings for him, he will dump me. How can I move on and find someone who wont hurt me? Should I still date??
I would suggest you to leave aside of searching a boyfriend around the world ,the better way to get the your mr right imagine five time in day think all the features in him like he should be handsome ,prosperous , etc. do not waste your time in silly things

valinors_sorrow
Dec 14, 2006, 10:36 PM
I agree with Tal - no surprise there! LOL Deep feelings for high school girls used to fill pages and pages of their diaries-- maybe Santa will bring one for you this Christmas! Wear the social scene lightly Jasmine. You are making a heavy go of it unnecessarily. Lots of time later for the heavy, deep and real stuff, trust me! There used to be a song in the sixties by Donovan (sorry I AM an aging hippy and can't help it) that was popular with a cosmetic line even and later covered by Srah McLachlan. One haunting line is sung over and over... "wear your love like heaven." How it sounds is how you should be... easy, breezy, floating... wear it lightly. For now. Okay?

Bluerose
Dec 15, 2006, 03:28 AM
Jasmine,

You're young, sweetie. Go and enjoy yourself. And try not to take life so seriously. It can be a lot of fun.