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lakeshadow0
Jul 8, 2010, 12:21 AM
I am a bisexual guy and my friend kind of seems like it. I saw him cuddle before but he always says he is straight I sent him a message from a unknown email and he said no to the gay request, around his friend he huddled with, he acts gay otherwise he doesn't. He has never had a girlfriend and I saw him stare at me a lot. So what should I do I really want him.

talaniman
Jul 8, 2010, 05:02 AM
That doesn't mean he wants you though, does it? Instead of going through all the tricks to see what he does, talk as friends and see what the truth is. Then you will know if your advances are wanted or not, and you don't have to assume, or speculate.

Jake2008
Jul 8, 2010, 09:40 PM
If he has always said he is straight, and all you know really, is that you wished he weren't, you don't have much to go on.

That he seems gay around his friend, to you, also does not make him gay.

Regardless, I'd say if he were interested, you would know.

You could be forthright, instead of sending a fake email to see if he took the bait, which he did, and refused, you could just ask him, the next time you have an opportunity.

Don't be surprised if you are incorrect again.

Kitkat22
Jul 8, 2010, 09:49 PM
Leave him alone before you get yourself into trouble. He says he's not gay, so he's not gay.

Those looks are probably because he feels uncomfortable around you.

positiveparent
Jul 9, 2010, 11:30 AM
There was a time when it was due to a chemical imbalance that determined a persons sexuality, now though it seems as if its more of a trend.

Either way just because you think he acts gay doesn't mean he is and if he's not and you make a pass at him he could end up highly offended and you lose a friend.

Let it go and leave him alone and your thoughts of is he or isn't he gay.

Devorameira
Jul 9, 2010, 12:14 PM
If your friend has told you he's straight, you have no choice but to simply believe what he's telling you.

Don't try to hit on him or you just may lose him as a friend,