rockchick182
Jul 6, 2010, 01:37 PM
This could get quite complicated, so just bear with me and i will try to make it as simple as possible.
3 years ago i went out with this guy who lives down the road from me. He was my first ever boyfriend and i was his first ever girlfriend, and we were both really happy. It lasted 3 months and then he ended it and he says that he doesn't know why he just did.
We never spoke for 6 months after that, but afterwards we saw each other alot more and becam e really good friends and have been ever since. Its now 3 years on from then, and we decided to give it another shot a few weeks ago, he told me that he was in love with me and it was the first time he had ever said it, this kinda freaked me out a little bit and so i ended it but i really didn't want to i just got abit freaked. So i asked him back out only to realise he had got with this other girl only a few days after, this really hurt me but we carried on being friends and still spoke. But he broke up with this girl a week later and then got with another girl and broke up with her a few days after. However i wanted to know if he still wanted me so i went to his and kissed him and asked him if i was wasting my time, and he plainly said yes, but he asked me later if i was being serious about the kiss, so i don't know if he was having second thoughts or what.
A few days ago we were talking to each other over texts late at night and we were saying really intimate stuff to each other which gives me the impression he still wants to be with me, and the next day he came to call for me and asked if i was coming out, so i went out and we went for a walk and then got with a group of our other friends and we all hung out at one of our friends houses. Now i had been drinking before i went there, and he had been smoking weed as well, so we were both really tired so we went to bed and we cuddled up and put our arms around each other and it really felt like we belonged together. But the next day he decided to ignore me completely and when i walked past him and said hi he never said anything or even looked at me. So im really stuck on whether he wants me and is just lying to himself or whether he doesn't and is just being a player. Please help its driving me crazy and im so sorry its really long.
3 years ago i went out with this guy who lives down the road from me. He was my first ever boyfriend and i was his first ever girlfriend, and we were both really happy. It lasted 3 months and then he ended it and he says that he doesn't know why he just did.
We never spoke for 6 months after that, but afterwards we saw each other alot more and becam e really good friends and have been ever since. Its now 3 years on from then, and we decided to give it another shot a few weeks ago, he told me that he was in love with me and it was the first time he had ever said it, this kinda freaked me out a little bit and so i ended it but i really didn't want to i just got abit freaked. So i asked him back out only to realise he had got with this other girl only a few days after, this really hurt me but we carried on being friends and still spoke. But he broke up with this girl a week later and then got with another girl and broke up with her a few days after. However i wanted to know if he still wanted me so i went to his and kissed him and asked him if i was wasting my time, and he plainly said yes, but he asked me later if i was being serious about the kiss, so i don't know if he was having second thoughts or what.
A few days ago we were talking to each other over texts late at night and we were saying really intimate stuff to each other which gives me the impression he still wants to be with me, and the next day he came to call for me and asked if i was coming out, so i went out and we went for a walk and then got with a group of our other friends and we all hung out at one of our friends houses. Now i had been drinking before i went there, and he had been smoking weed as well, so we were both really tired so we went to bed and we cuddled up and put our arms around each other and it really felt like we belonged together. But the next day he decided to ignore me completely and when i walked past him and said hi he never said anything or even looked at me. So im really stuck on whether he wants me and is just lying to himself or whether he doesn't and is just being a player. Please help its driving me crazy and im so sorry its really long.