I have fancied someone for months now and I do really love him and I'm trying to see more of him and to get to know him. However, someone else has started talking to me on Facebook and I can sort of sense by the way he keeps talking to me on there and putting x's all the time that he quite likes me. I am frightened that I will start to like him and forget about the other one and really don't want to. Yeh I enjoy talking to him because he's nice to me (well obviusly lol) but don't want to feel anything for him. So I've removed him as a friend. I feel that this is the only way that I can try to forget about him and go back to really liking the first one. I am hoping that it's just a phase I'm going through and in a couple of days I will be back to normal but has anyone got any ideas on how I can get him out of my head for good?

thank you.

Is there a reason why you can't talk to both?

Either is a boyfriend,your single,so are they (you hope) and there is no crime in talking.

As long as your up front about it and they know your single,your not leading them on your just talking.

If you're a young teen,you will fall in and out of infatution several times,don't get caught up one just one guy.

Are these online conversations, or do you actually interact in person? How old are you?

Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself to stay faithful to someone you're not even with?

You're single. You can talk to whoever you want. Get to know more people and see what happens.