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Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 01:39 PM
Is it really that bad 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes?? I mean, were not touching each other or having sex or anything. Its pics. This is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics and my fone and this tym I'm nvr getting my fone bak. I don't c anything rong wit it

EmoPrincess
Jul 3, 2010, 01:45 PM
First off, rules of the site say you must use proper grammar.

Second, yes it is. If you are under 18, pictures of you like that is illegal. Sending anything like that to anyone under 18 is illegal regardless of your age.

Everything about it if either you or the others are under 18 is just plain illegal.

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 01:47 PM
It is wrong and you could get yourself into a lot of trouble. These boys are going to show these pictures to everyone. How old are you?

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 02:00 PM
I don't mind. I show the stuff they send me to people

EmoPrincess
Jul 3, 2010, 02:01 PM
I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

This whole thing is illegal! Whether you mind it or not

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 02:02 PM
Hi, Simone21295!

Is it really that bad? Please click on the following link and read some of the articles.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=Sexting+Outlawed+Teens&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

Yes. Please also use proper English spelling and grammar on this site. If you don't, then you risk having your posts deleted. This isn't a chat room.

Thanks!

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 02:05 PM
Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 02:08 PM
I'm 15

EmoPrincess
Jul 3, 2010, 02:13 PM
im 15

First off, you are too young for this stuff. Second, you can be charged with distribution of child pornography

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 02:15 PM
im 15

I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up yourself esteem.

Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.

kp2171
Jul 3, 2010, 03:09 PM
So... you're upset your mother took the phone. First of all, even if you bought the phone and you are paying the monthly bills for service (are you?) she still has the right to do what she believes is needed to keep you safe. You don't have to agree. She has the trump card. When you are legally an adult, you can send as much skin out there as you wish.

Legally... its really inconsistent. Lets say you send something to a friend. That friend passes it on to another. That other is legally an adult. If he is caught in the wrong state, he can be convicted of possession of child porn and must register as a sex offender.

Sorry... in this area, it is best to be "too overbearing"...

A young guy who thinks its funny to streak across a public park might end up as a convicted sex offender. Might not be the intent of the law, but in some cases, it doesn't matter.

Your mother knows about this. What if she let you do this? What if some other parent found out and called the police?

Show your mother the respect she deserves when she's asked you not to do this.

It isn't all about you.

cdad
Jul 3, 2010, 04:17 PM
I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

So you don't mind who sees it? Not even if your parents see you or your friends parents? You don't mind the world seeing you in that light? That is where it is headed. Don't cheapen yourself. Your body is a temple and so are the images of it. Only share that with someone your married to. Not with strangers. Because no matter how well you think you know the people your sending stuff to its bound to get into a strangers hands. Plus its illegal. That is a whole other ball of wax. Don't even go there and stay out of trouble.

Alty
Jul 3, 2010, 04:59 PM
Is it rly that bad jus 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes??? i mean, were not touchin each other or havin sex or anythin. its jus pics. this is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics n my fone and this tym im nvr gettin my fone bak. i dnt c anythin rong wit it

I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 08:57 PM
Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!

My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 09:01 PM
Then your mom should know about the nude photo's. You say she does I say if she does and allows this to go on , something is wrong.

Let your mother read these post and we'll see if she knows.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 3, 2010, 09:02 PM
At the end of the day, moral issues aside, it is illegal, if you are underage, sending them out to anyone is a crime.. You can be put on probation or sent to detention for doing it.
Or have a fine ( which your mom would have to pay)

Next normally if you send it to one person, it is then sent to several others at some point and time

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:22 PM
I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 09:26 PM
Originally Posted by Clough
Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!


My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything

So then, I assume that the phone is in her name. Correct?

If indeed, it is in her name, and if something truly illegal is transmitted electronically by using it, and if that transmission is traced to the source, then guess who it gets traced to?

Also, if she's paying for the phone, don't you think that you should abiding by any of her rules with using the cell phone? I mean, it is her money and she is your mother and only wants what would be the best for you!

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:27 PM
I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up your self esteem.

Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.

I already had a therapist at school about some other problems I was having. Its summer break now and she won't be back at my school next year.

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 09:30 PM
Originally Posted by Altenweg
I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.


Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.

Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 09:34 PM
So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen.. I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:36 PM
Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?
Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:39 PM
So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen..I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

I am 15. That picture of me is 2 years old.

EmoPrincess
Jul 3, 2010, 09:40 PM
How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 09:43 PM
Originally Posted by Clough
Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?


Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:43 PM
how did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 09:44 PM
Good question Emop!!

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:47 PM
That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 09:47 PM
Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?


I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

That's okay. The real parent is the one who plays the part anyway!

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 09:52 PM
Originally Posted by Clough
That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?


It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Is+it+rly+that+bad+jus+2+exchange+naked+pics+wit +dudes%3F%3F%3F&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 09:53 PM
They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 09:58 PM
Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Is+it+rly+that+bad+jus+2+exchange+naked+pics+wit +dudes%3F%3F%3F&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 10:02 PM
They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

Well, I was when my mom found them.

Simone21295
Jul 3, 2010, 10:03 PM
Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Is+it+rly+that+bad+jus+2+exchange+naked+pics+wit +dudes%3F%3F%3F&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

That is sort of scary.

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 10:06 PM
That is sort of scary.




Good... You should be scared.

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 10:15 PM
Originally Posted by Clough
Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Is+it+rly+that+bad+jus+2+exchange+naked+pics+wit +dudes%3F%3F%3F&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)


That is sort of scary.

Yes, it is! And, that showed up only about eight hours after you started the thread and without using a vanity search! Heck, you did better for appearing first on a Google search than many businesses that spend thousands of dollars for search engine optimization!

But, I hope that you might be learning something...

Also, please notice the other kind of links that show up in the search and their related words - "naked pics", "bad a$$", "exchange of images", "two naked maids roaming around his place?", "i wnat you to let him catcj you naked and seee what he sayz", "What the .... is this I'm looking at?", etc.

Do you really want what you post or send to come up being associated with certain types of topics - some of which the content might have even been banned by a site administrator because of the content being against norms of decency and maybe even illegal in the nature of it?

friend4u178
Jul 3, 2010, 10:20 PM
So now your thread is accessible to millions of people around the world via Google.

It takes just one person to do the same with your naked pictures , see now that's scary... and it's FOREVER :cool:

Clough
Jul 3, 2010, 10:27 PM
Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Is+it+rly+that+bad+jus+2+exchange+naked+pics+wit +dudes%3F%3F%3F&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)


WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

I sorry, I missed that one response by you! Wow, is right!

Just think of the power that you could be harnessing by spending time putting good and useful information on the Internet so that you and your loved ones might be able to make some money!

Kitkat22
Jul 3, 2010, 10:30 PM
There are sick, twisted people in this world who would do anything to anybody to get their kicks.

You have left yourself open to someone seeing those pictures.
Not only that, think of the young people who are raped and murdered because of something like this.

There's no question in my mind at all that you are younger than you say you are. I hope you're scared and I hope you have enough sense to stop this behavior.

What happens if one of those pictures turn up on a porn site?
You can't undo what you've done
But you can learn from it.

kp2171
Jul 3, 2010, 10:49 PM
Look. Its fun to be bad. No surprise there.

And lets be real here... development of sexuality starts Long before legal age... so... the drive and the interest you have isn't odd or new or unfamiliar to most of us.

If you are going to act like an adult, you need to think like one... and that includes an understanding of what are the ramifications of your actions.

My mother was a straight A student. The good girl who walked the straight line. Who became a mother at the age of early 17. It happens. You know this. That the thing that drives you sometimes has unintended consequences.

Likewise, you MUST act as if anything you send out is known to everybody, everywhere. Just plan on it. There are sites full of "pass it on" pics and videos that some trusting girl sent to some guy who then kept it moving along...

Just because you give something in good faith doesn't mean the recipient will safeguard it in good faith long term...

This isn't about your drive or interest being wrong. We all have some degree of flirtiness and sensuality. Its about the very real liklihood that anything you send to any boy being "out there" in public forever.

Once I hit the enter key... my post is no longer mine. Its no longer private.

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 12:29 AM
There are sick, twisted people in this world who would do anything to anybody to get their kicks.

You have left yourself open to someone seeing those pictures.
Not only that, think of the young people who are raped and murdered because of something like this.

There's no question in my mind at all that you are younger than you say you are. I hope you're scared and I hope you have enough sense to stop this behavior.

What happens if one of those pictures turn up on a porn site?
You can't undo what you've done
but you can learn from it.

Im not lying about my age. You can check my Facebook if you want.

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 12:34 AM
Okay. So, your age isn't a question here. You've also responded to just about everyone who has posted a response to you on this thread. That's admirable!

What are you going to do now?

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 12:56 AM
Okay. So, your age isn't a question here. You've also responded to just about everyone who has posted a response to you on this thread. That's admirable!

What are you going to do now?

It is really scary that this is a #1 hit on Google. I really don't want that. I understand what everyone is trying to say about those pictures and that anyone could be able to see them at one point but I highly doubt they would. They guys I sent those pictures to are a lot older than me. They're probably more worried about whether they themselves are in trouble.

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:00 AM
Is that you in all of the sites that can be found by clicking on the following link?

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=Simone21295&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 01:06 AM
Is that you in all of the sites that can be found by clicking on the following link?

LINK (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=Simone21295&btnG=Search&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=)

Wow. Yea, that's me. I use this user name for everything.

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:07 AM
Now you see how exposed you can be! Do you really want that much exposure?

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 01:12 AM
Now you see how exposed you can be! Do you really want that much exposure?

No, I don't

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:19 AM
Then I would suggest that you start using a new user name and don't share it with anyone else, except those whom you really want to know what it is.

You can even start using a different user name on this site. However, your original one will remain. The posts will also remain. If things get changed too much, then it destroys the integrity of the threads.

Please just be really careful with what you post on any site. You never really know how much exposure you're going to be getting! Please also read the Rules and Terms of Service of this site carefully!

Thanks!

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:28 AM
I can see that you're modifying your avatar. This should be interesting...

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:32 AM
I can see now that you're modifying your options.

Kind of scary that someone can see what you're doing, don't you think?

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 01:35 AM
I can see now that you're modifying your options.

Kind of scary that someone can see what you're doing, don't you think?
How can you see that?

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:37 AM
Okay, it's getting really late for me! I need to get some sleep!

Believe it or not, I need to be able to get up to play for church this morning!

I responded to one of your earlier threads. I hope that you'll respond in kind on it.

I'm glad that you removed your avatar that was an image of you! I hope that you'll be working hard in the future to protect yourself from potential danger!

Later...

Goodnight! :)

Clough
Jul 4, 2010, 01:39 AM
How can you see that?

I have a number of different things open on the Internet and on this site that allows me to see different things.

I have enjoyed discussing things with you!

Please be careful!

Later...

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 01:41 AM
I have a number of different things open on the Internet and on this site that allows me to see different things.

I have enjoyed discussing things with you!

Please be careful!

Later...

Ok. Thanks for your help

Kitkat22
Jul 4, 2010, 12:10 PM
Simone.. I hope you see how people here are concerned about you. There are people all over this world who can find out anything they want about anybody.

Everyone knows someone who can access anything on a computer they wish too. I wish it weren't so but it is.

Be careful... people are able to do anything today with a computer they wish too. Talk to someone.

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 09:25 PM
Simone..I hope you see how people here are concerned about you. There are people all over this world who can find out anything they want about anybody.

Everyone knows someone who can access anything on a computer they wish too. I wish it weren't so but it is.

Be careful...people are able to do anything today with a computer they wish too. Talk to someone.

Ok. Ill tell them when I go back to school that I would like someone to talk to.

Kitkat22
Jul 4, 2010, 09:30 PM
Ok. Ill tell them when I go back to school that I would like someone to talk to.





I'm so happy you are going to talk to someone. Tell them everything that's bothering you. Tell them about the pictures. Pour out your feelings and please stop the nude photo exchanging. Blessings to you and you are in my prayers.:)

Simone21295
Jul 4, 2010, 09:35 PM
I'm so happy you are going to talk to someone. Tell them everything that's bothering you. Tell them about the pictures. Pour out your feelings and please stop the nude photo exchanging. Blessings to you and you are in my prayers.:)

Do I have to tell them that? Since it is illegal, wouldn't that be like a confession or something? Or am I watching too much Law & Order?

Kitkat22
Jul 4, 2010, 09:47 PM
Do I have to tell them that? Since it is illegal, wouldnt that be like a confession or somthing? Or am I watching too much Law & Order?

Once you start talking and your comfortable with that teacher or counselor, I think it would be good to ask what would happen if someone sent nude photos to someone. They may already know and confession is good for the soul.

It's up to you whatever you want to tell them. Just tell them the things that are bothering you. Let us know what happens.

aimee_tt
Jul 4, 2010, 09:54 PM
Simone a girl I went to school with did something similar but she posed nude on web cam.

A few weeks later the guy she posed nude for threatened to tell her cousin. She did not realise that he knew who she was. Thought he was a stranger. He had recorded her and held it over her head for months. One day he tried to blackmail her into doing things with him. Which is when she told her parents what had happened.

This ended up getting around the whole school. She got so embarrassed and wouldn't come to school anymore.

Your lucky your mum found out before it got too far and you couldn't turn it around.

Don't do it again. Its not worth a few minutes of fun.

Kitkat22
Jul 5, 2010, 04:38 AM
Simone a girl i went to school with did something similar but she posed nude on web cam.

A few weeks later the guy she posed nude for threatened to tell her cousin. She did not realise that he knew who she was. thought he was a stranger. He had recorded her and held it over her head for months. One day he tried to blackmail her into doing things with him. Which is when she told her parents what had happened.

This ended up getting around the whole school. She got so embarrased and wouldnt come to school anymore.

Your lucky your mum found out before it got too far and you couldnt turn it around.

Dont do it again. Its not worth a few minutes of fun.



Simone... I'll be thinking of you today and saying a prayer. You can turn your life around starting today. Aimee and the others have given you great advice. Love yourself and think of the great young woman you can be by making good choices... Blessings:)

Simone21295
Jul 5, 2010, 08:35 PM
Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.

Kitkat22
Jul 5, 2010, 09:01 PM
Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.








Be good and study hard and no more sending nude pictures of yourself to anyone at school or anywhere... :)

Simone21295
Jul 17, 2010, 11:51 PM
OK, I have 1 more question. Should I tell my boyfriend about what I did? My mom taking away my phone really hurt our relationship. I bearly get to talk to him now and I definitely can't see him. Were putting our relationship on hold for now. This is all my fault. Should I tell him?

Clough
Jul 18, 2010, 12:04 AM
Hi again, Simone21295!

What have you told him so far about why you can't see each other, please?

Thanks!

Simone21295
Jul 18, 2010, 12:08 AM
I told him 1 of my ex bfs was trying to get back with me by sending me pictures while my mama was checking my phone. I told him about last year when I did that but we weren't dating then.

Clough
Jul 18, 2010, 12:12 AM
Was what you told to him the truth?

Concerning you sending images, unless there is the chance of your images being found somewhere, my thought would be not to tell him. It's one of the things that's now in your past.

Kind of a tough call though...

Kitkat22
Jul 18, 2010, 12:30 AM
Simone.. What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

Simone21295
Jul 18, 2010, 12:50 AM
No, its not the truth. He doesn't know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

Simone21295
Jul 18, 2010, 12:52 AM
Simone..What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

Thanks for the help. Ill just keep this to myself.

Clough
Jul 18, 2010, 01:34 AM
No, its not the truth. He doesnt know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

Simone21295
Jul 19, 2010, 12:53 AM
If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off of your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

He won't find out.

Clough
Jul 19, 2010, 01:58 AM
How can you be sure about that, please?

SpicyMango
Jul 26, 2010, 08:53 PM
In different states, Ive heard of people your age going to jail about stuff like this. You may think you are innocent, but when it is reported you can be in serious trouble. I would hate to see anyone else go to jail for something like this. Im just a year older than you, but keep what you have private, and you won't have to ask.

jmjoseph
Jul 26, 2010, 09:27 PM
He wont find out.

So you're not willing to come clean with someone who thinks that he knows you? You should consider even being in a "relationship" right now if you're going to insist on being so irresponsible and selfish.

Just because you get a cheap thrill out of sending guys your naked image doesn't mean that "it's not hurting anyone". Your mother should be commended for keeping close tabs on you. It sure looks like she needs to.

You are worried about your phone, when you should really be ashamed of yourself.

Use your better judgement, and common sense, in the future.

Simone21295
Aug 10, 2012, 07:32 AM
I was just up late thinking about this old account and I just wanted to let those who cared to know I'm all right. I don't do these things anymore and I'm still with my boyfriend and I still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and I think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

cdad
Aug 10, 2012, 12:03 PM
I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job!!

Alty
Aug 10, 2012, 02:19 PM
I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

I'm so glad you came back to let us know how you're doing. So often we give advice and the poster never comes back to tell us how it worked out.

Congrats on your graduation. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope you keep us posted on how things go from here on out. You can do great things, you just need to set your mind to it. :)

LOLlover
Aug 11, 2012, 07:44 PM
This deffinately NOT okay child Pornography is ILLEGAL this behaviour is deffinatly innapropriate.You don't want to be labeled as a sl*t or sc**k this can make experiences at school awful .DON'T do it ,It's not right and obviously you already know that due to in your question you asked "is it bad".

Simone21295
Aug 12, 2012, 12:20 AM
Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job !!!!

thank you =)

Simone21295
Aug 12, 2012, 12:21 AM
I'm so glad you came back to let us know how you're doing. So often we give advice and the poster never comes back to tell us how it worked out.

Congrats on your graduation. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope you keep us posted on how things go from here on out. You can do great things, you just need to set your mind to it. :)

I will, and thanks for your help

Simone21295
Aug 12, 2012, 12:25 AM
This deffinately NOT okay child Pornography is ILLEGAL this behaviour is deffinatly innapropriate.You don't want to be labeled as a sl*t or sc**k this can make experiences at school awful .DON'T do it ,It's not right and obviously you already know that due to in your question you asked "is it bad".

Yes, I know this. I asked this questions almost 2 years. I just recently commented on it again to tell those who helped me out how I am now.

JessicaW8
Aug 12, 2012, 08:08 PM
This is illegal and extremely bad. Those pictures you sent will end up on the Internet if they are not already on it, and will make it impossible for you to get into college or get a job. They Google you before they accept you. Everyone in the world will be able to see you naked. It doesn't matter if you don't mind because it is illegal. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Alty
Aug 12, 2012, 09:08 PM
This is illegal and extremely bad. Those pictures you sent will end up on the Internet if they are not already on it, and will make it impossible for you to get into college or get a job. They google you before they accept you. Everyone in the world will be able to see you naked. It doesn't matter if you don't mind because it is illegal. You should be ashamed of yourself.

You should be ashamed of yourself. Read the entire thread. This poster posted 2 years ago, recently came back to let us know that she's stopped this behavior and she just graduated from high school.

You really need to read all the posts before you comment.

Steph4353
Aug 12, 2012, 09:40 PM
That's great that you have overcome this(: