My girlfriend broke up with me after a year and didn't want me to call or stop by but, said she would do counseling. I did receive an email from her today just a christmas one sent to a lot of people but, I was on the list.

I received a short notice invitation to a special event and sent her an email asking if she was interested in going. She did email me back that she couldn't because, it was a choir night and I knew that.

I did call and refer that she called about the counseling and we are on the wait list but, she never told me she set it up.

So should I be hopeful that we might have a chance or am I wrong?

You keep asking the same thing again and again here Bjo, in four different threads now.

Who knows what your chances are as a lasting relationshp, really!

The only way you find out is to go to counseling and see what happens... just like the rest of us do it LOL

PLease go and read my thread here. It is the best advice I have to offer and I won't waste my time anymore.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/will-she-wont-she-48239.html

If you want replay to issues in that thread and then I will reply again. But I want keep asking the same question.

Get it in your head. She's gone!

It's over, grow from the experience and move on. Time waits for no man. Stop wasting your energy on this and get out and have a good time.