View Full Version : How to respond with wrong accusations
jollygaly
Jun 29, 2010, 03:57 PM
I lived with a couple in an apartment for 2 years. They have four kids and I am like a member of it. The wife went for a 2 weeks vacation and when she got back, the hysband was claiming that I had a relationship with him. Or just a sexual act happened between us. The wife believed and it has spread to our group. The wife have made up proofs including a fortune teller that I am the culprit of his husband's wanting to leave them. My conscience is clean and clear. I don't know how to defend myself.
smoothy
Jun 29, 2010, 04:06 PM
You can't prove nothing happened... proving a negative is impossible. All you can do is proclaim your innocence of this, I assume you no longer live with them. If you do... its time to leave.
jollygaly
Jun 29, 2010, 04:29 PM
The gossip fired while I am overseas and now I have to go back prematurely to see what I can do. I pity the kids. Please give me more tips. Thanks
Fr_Chuck
Jun 29, 2010, 06:24 PM
Merely ignore or deny it, nothing else you can do.
smoothy
Jun 30, 2010, 04:55 AM
There really isn't much you can do... the woman is having delusional episodes obviously... and as a non-family member there really is nothing you can do. Personal;ly, as I said before... for a non-blood relative acting like this? Put a lot of distance between them and yourself. Lifes too short to waste any of it dealing with lunatics. As you said... YOU have a clear concience because nothing happened. And at the end of the day... thats what matters most.