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jessylynejoce
Jun 22, 2010, 03:23 PM
My ex boyfriend he call me 2 time after 6 month he miss me and he give me date,
I meet him he told me he didn't forget me always he remember me I meet to muche girl no one like and he show me he still love me and he say why you didn't stay with me friend I feel pain your far. But he was honest with me he told me have girl friend is not happy sexualy and not very close like our relation but he don't say he will leave her and he give me other number if I want to call him I say I don't want caus I can't call you u have girlfriend he told me I give to don't feel guelty any time you want call me but I feel something wrong
Really he love me like me or just he miss me or he feel good sexual? I'm confuse

friend4u178
Jun 22, 2010, 04:19 PM
He wants to use you for Sex , simple as that.

Homegirl 50
Jun 22, 2010, 06:13 PM
If he loved you he would be with you.
He wants you for sex.

positiveparent
Jun 22, 2010, 06:17 PM
He just wants you for his bit on the side, Don't let him use you.

Ignore him...

Jake2008
Jun 22, 2010, 11:39 PM
He does not love you.

Anybody can say 'I love you', but when it comes with the condition of calling on the sly, and meeting up for casual sex, he is clearly using you.

Three people in a relationship is one too many. That would be you.

On the plus side, he is still your ex. Keep him there. Likely his girlfriend will put him in that boat too eventually, who knows.

Consider that you were successful in the breakup with him, and keep it that way.

talaniman
Jun 23, 2010, 06:28 AM
There is nothing to feel confused about, you're his booty call. And he does it because you ALLOW HIM TO.

Cat1864
Jun 23, 2010, 06:53 AM
The best way to stop being confused is to refuse to have any contact with him at all. It doesn't matter what he wants/needs/desires/etc. You are only responsible for yourself and not allowing yourself to be used as a substitute for anyone or thing.

If you still can't get over thoughts of being with him, think of this: He is cheating on her. What do you think he was doing while the two of you were in a 'committed' relationship? That one question clears up a lot of 'confusion' for me. I hope it does for you, too.