holly2004
Jun 20, 2010, 02:48 PM
I am hoping you can help. Our son is 39 years old. He is divorced from a woman {edited} He was only married to her for 7 years. He is not the biological Father to her two children. The children's real Father was a dead beat Father and never held a job down. So, she did not collect child support from him.
Our son feels she married him because he was {edited} in the Marines. He retired in {edited}, 20 years in. He has a small pension, small disability which she gets a percentage of that was well.
She makes more money than our son does. He will be teaching (edited} soon . Teachers do not make that much money. He is paying $1700 per month for two children that are not his and the children do not want to visit him. They have their own life.
{Location edited} Since he feels she married him to eventually collect child support from him, because she wasn't getting it from the real Father, does he have a case to Un-Adopt the children?
From what we gather he seems to be afraid of her. When we met her while they were married she was very cold and distant and controlled him. Or, he let her control him.
Now, he is miserable because he doesn't have much money to live on. He knows he needs to go back to court to have the support decreased.
Is there such thing as un-adopting and does he have a case? I take it he has no proof that she married him, only to divorce him later for the support.
Sorry if I'm rambling too much! The children are 14 and 15.
Thanks for your help!
Our son feels she married him because he was {edited} in the Marines. He retired in {edited}, 20 years in. He has a small pension, small disability which she gets a percentage of that was well.
She makes more money than our son does. He will be teaching (edited} soon . Teachers do not make that much money. He is paying $1700 per month for two children that are not his and the children do not want to visit him. They have their own life.
{Location edited} Since he feels she married him to eventually collect child support from him, because she wasn't getting it from the real Father, does he have a case to Un-Adopt the children?
From what we gather he seems to be afraid of her. When we met her while they were married she was very cold and distant and controlled him. Or, he let her control him.
Now, he is miserable because he doesn't have much money to live on. He knows he needs to go back to court to have the support decreased.
Is there such thing as un-adopting and does he have a case? I take it he has no proof that she married him, only to divorce him later for the support.
Sorry if I'm rambling too much! The children are 14 and 15.
Thanks for your help!