I have an 84 dodge ramcharger and recently two relays went bad I can get a number off one of them and its 4111481 it also says it is a 90 sec time relay its grey and the other one is identical only black they have the same style plug in them and one website was calling it an egr relay. Also recently had problems starting sometimes will sometimes won't no noise no nothing hoping one of these relays will help.

Any body that has any help would be greatly appreciated. Trying to sell this would help move the truck a lot faster.

Test the relay as a relay, it may not be bad. 12 volts and a meter.
http://www.bestvalueautoparts.com/ShopByVehicle.epc?q=&mode=PA&subcatid=76@@Emiss Sns, Rly, Sol. And Switch&yearid=1990%40%401990&makeid=23%40%40DODGE%40%40B&modelid=4286%40%40COLT+VISTA&engineid=6311%40%40L4%2D1997cc+2%2E0L+F%2FI+Vin+V% 40%406311&catid=5%40%40Fuel%2FEmissions&subcatid=76%40%40Emiss+Sns%2C+Rly%2C+Sol%2E+and+Sw itch
Scroll down to part number 212-371

The relays are bad cause the back has melted off the back of them and the yellow goop is coming out
And the local part stores say the part is discontinued.

Why don't you click on the blue link I provided above, and get your part, if 2 expensive, then compare:
http://www.google.com/search?q=84+dodge+time+delay+relay+4111481&rls=com.microsoft:en-us&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&startIndex=&startPage=1

They can't get one and I've been searching all over the web