I had sex once in a week with my GF.
Now I came overseas to study.
How we should control our lust to be faithfull.

Webcams and video chats. Don't be unfaithful, and trust that your girlfriend won't be either.

Whenever you have a chance to go home, do so.

Video sex calls are fun. :-)

That and masturbate.

How old are you? (I ask because not all students studying abroad are over 18 years old.)

How old are you? (I ask because not all students studying abroad are over 18 years old.)


Hi I am 20 years old and my GF is 20 as well.
We are not married but committed to marry.

Webcams and video chats. Don't be unfaithful, and trust that your girlfriend won't be either.

Whenever you have a chance to go home, do so.

Video sex calls are fun. :-)

That and masturbate.

We won't be unfaithful to each other.
Can you explain me in details about it.. please..

How about casual sex with some one else just for mean time when my
Girlfriend is away?

That is called cheating. Unless you both have agreed to an open relationship. You can talk to your GF about it, but chances are she wants exclusivity.

IE, you probably don't want your GF having casual sex, so why would it be okay for you to have it?

With a Web camera you can have video calls. You can undress and describe in detail what you want to do the other person which getting off. It adds a level of intimacy over long distances.

When you have a break and can afford to go home, do so. If you can hold it until then that is great.

Masturbate. Whether it is alone or while talking to your girl friend. Phone sex and Video sex with your partner can be fun.

How about casual sex with some one else just for mean time when my
gf is away??

Why even bother with having a girlfriend then... you know... SHE can do the same thing... think about it.

How about casual sex with some one else just for mean time when my
gf is away??
How about breaking up with her and then have casual sex?

Since you changed your user name and now you have a post asking about when she is away (I thought you were the one who was going to be 'away'?) plus going from not being unfaithful to minutes later asking about casual sex with someone other than your girlfriend, I am going to ask again (just to be on the safe side):

How old are you?

How about casual sex with some one else just for mean time when my
gf is away??
Casual sex with someone else is not being faithful.
Would it be OK if your girl friend decides to does that too?

Hi there,
I am 20 years old and my Gf I 20 as well.
And we are going to live with each other..
But I am not going to see her for about 6-7 months.
So what measures should be taken to control sex... and please also tell advice for my GF as well..

You have gotten advice.
Read the thread. What we've said to you applies to her as well.