You see I have not had sex for well let's see... going on three years now. :eek: In my last relationship I had the best orgasms in my life. When the relationship ended I had to masturbate. I would orgasm when I masturbated. But now when I masturbate I can't get an orgasm to save my life. Is it because it's been so long? Is it that masturbating is just not doing it for me anymore? Do I need the real thing? Or maybe I just need different toys?Help me I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me?

You see I have not had sex for well let's see...going on three years now. :eek: In my last relationship I had the best orgasms in my life. When the relationship ended I had to masturbate. I would orgasm when I masturbated. But now when I masturbate I can't get an orgasm to save my life. Is it because it's been so long? Is it that masturbating is just not doing it for me anymore? Do I need the real thing? Or maybe I just need different toys?Help me I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me?


Well that's tough don't go doing anything crazy like being a playgirl just find a guy you like and ask him if he in to it I know its crazy but after you do that he will think oh baby and maybe do somink new!!

I should have mentioned I have no plans in running around with any men. So I need some suggetions on fresh ideas to get me going again. No plans on being a playgirl, no joy in that, it's too easy. And I'm not easy!

Have you tried a BOB?
A Battery Operated Boyfriend?

Of course. It's one I have had for many years. It's always been ol'faitful till now. Do I need new toys, different type of toys..?

Maybe you need to try something new... "spice it up" a bit

I should have mentioned I have no plans in running around with any men. So I need some suggetions on fresh ideas to get me going again. No plans on being a playgirl, no joy in that, it's too easy. And I'm not easy!

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Hi l am 55 went thourgh the menopause 4 years ago then 7 mounths ago l started to lose my sexual pleasure.l had been okay up to then l just can't get any feeling of excitement l love my partener very much . Help.

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