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lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 12:06 AM
I have got a friend who want leave me alone she is always in my face and she thinks she is my best friend but I don't feel that way about her. I don't want to be mean but I want some time away from her I am the only friend she has. How can I have a break from her without being a

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 12:50 AM
Hi again, lollylegs_leslie!

What do mean that she's always in your face, please?

Also, have you spoken with her about the way that you feel?

It's possible that you might not need a break from her, but maybe just some coping strategies in order to help to make a situation better.

Thanks!

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:13 AM
What I mean in my face is she is always wanting attention and she is reallly imature

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:14 AM
How old are the two of you, please?

Thanks!

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:15 AM
Late teens

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:21 AM
I asked you in my first post, if you have spoken to her about the way that you feel.

Have you spoken to her, please?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:22 AM
No I don't have the guts because she gets upset really eaisly

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:25 AM
Ah, then she thinks that it's okay to treat you the way that she does!

Basically, she gets away with it.

It's also probably why she has few, if any other friends.

Would you like to know some things to say to her that might not make her upset?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:27 AM
Yes that would be excellent

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:29 AM
What is her first name, please?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:30 AM
I can't tell you sorry just say...

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:31 AM
Are you afraid that someone will know what you post on this website?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:33 AM
Sorry I can't tell you you don't need to know do you

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:35 AM
You mean her name or being afraid that someone will know what you post on this website?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:36 AM
Both

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:38 AM
I don't need to know her name.

What you post here will be found easily in searches on the Internet. You do need to know that.

So, we just be careful in what we post.

Does anyone outside of this site know your user name here?

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:40 AM
I a, not sure maybe some friends I guess

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:42 AM
Then you might not want to tell that many people about the site. Just those whom you would really want to know.

lollylegs_leslie
Jun 12, 2010, 02:44 AM
Yeah I not going to tell many people

Clough
Jun 12, 2010, 02:54 AM
I'll just use a made-up girl's name for her then.

"Jenny, I've really got a problem and I was wondering if you would be willing to help me with it? You would be just the right person to help me.

Would you?"

That's one way that you can begin with her. Makes her feel special because she will think that she's just the right person to help you with your problem.

Capiche?