nafisahm
Jun 10, 2010, 11:20 AM
Moved to its own thread
I am also in this situation... I am only being marry 3 years and have 2 babies, my husband is great ,but I never love it him,for many reasons ,including the fact that I like much older mens then me ,I am never physically attracted to young mens ,I think it have nothing to do with the look is more of mental stability and self calm .unfortunately my husband never did take no for and answer and marry me at any cost ,for the children's and for him, but now I find myself lost with no feelings and unable to even give love to my children because of my everyday frustrations.. I want to leave him I just don't have the guts to do it .also I am realistic and I know that no one can replace a father for my children plus ,even relationship with love end up breaking up when love leave out the door...
So what to do ,what not to do ,when are we being selfish ,when are we being stupids ,I don't know anything any more ,but I know I can't love him for sure ,I most time think he deserve better .
I am also in this situation... I am only being marry 3 years and have 2 babies, my husband is great ,but I never love it him,for many reasons ,including the fact that I like much older mens then me ,I am never physically attracted to young mens ,I think it have nothing to do with the look is more of mental stability and self calm .unfortunately my husband never did take no for and answer and marry me at any cost ,for the children's and for him, but now I find myself lost with no feelings and unable to even give love to my children because of my everyday frustrations.. I want to leave him I just don't have the guts to do it .also I am realistic and I know that no one can replace a father for my children plus ,even relationship with love end up breaking up when love leave out the door...
So what to do ,what not to do ,when are we being selfish ,when are we being stupids ,I don't know anything any more ,but I know I can't love him for sure ,I most time think he deserve better .