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Me and my boyfriend are seeing each other for 3 yrs , v always had long distance relationship.. every 2 months v broke up for some reason or the other. But always he is the one to dump me. Long distance that doesn't mean v don't meet v meet once in a month. And never had sex.. I love him a lot. I'm the one who always first ask for breakup then after few hours want him back.. I'm quite weak from heart, I can't live without him.. today too we had a fight but this time I don't want him back . I'm tried of listening and giving any explanation. What should I do? I really can't think of any other thing..

If you can't fix the problems that broke you up in the first place, then getting back together will only blow up again, as you have already experienced.

If you can't work out your problems, then you're better off going your separate ways, don't force yourselves to get back together just for the sake of getting back.

Stop making contact with him,stop answering his calls,texts,msm,whatever means of contact you use,just stop,he may persist for a while as he has learnt you will give in and talk to him,but he will get the message that you mean it this time.

No contact.!

Do yourselves a favour and disappear from his life.

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I'm the one who always first ask for breakup then after few hours want him back.. I'm quite weak from heart, I can't live without him.. today too we had a fight but this time I don't want him back . I'm tired of listening and giving any explanation. What should I do? I really can't think of any other thing.. losing any contacts is something I can't do..

Sure you can, you just don't want to. You need to try though, or keep going through the same misery and pain as before.