I went to school and found out that my best friend for 4years and my ex that I dated for 4 and 1\2 months that I still love is going out what should I do?

I'd be really upset with both of them. Evidently she wasn't really the friend that you thought she was - a real friend would have never started dating your ex.

Find yourself a new best friend and a new boyfriend. Neither one of them are worth it.

I would really sit down with your friend and tell her how you feel. It wasn't right for her to do that behind your back and an explanation is definitely in order. As for your ex-boyfriend, it sounds more to me that you have a case of puppy love. I am sure you are in high school and boys come and go often. Real love doesn't always come in a 4 months time and you will find someone better who will not go for your best friend. Sounds like your ex is a tad on the immature side for doing something so low. But again talk to your friend and see what the deal is. And cheer up it was just a 4 month relationship you will find someone better in no time.

Maybe its time for a new best friend, and a boyfriend.

How old are you?

I'm in the same thing talk 2 your friend let her know what your feeling an see what she has to say

im in the same thing talk 2 ur friend let her know what ur feeling an see what she has to say

No text or chat speak please.


Mia... Friends do not do that to a best friend. I know you're hurt and mostly because a friend betrayed you.

Trust me.. it will never be the same. After the boy finds another girlfriend and moves on and you too try to be friends again, it will not be the same.

I totally understand u, I'm in the same situation. I really miss my ex, and my best friends dating her. At first I was really sad, but after a while I realized that my relationship with her was in the past, and there's nothing I can do to get her back. Both my best friend and my ex are happy together, and I should be happy for them, and not dwell on the past. I personally don't think you should get rid of your best friend, but do get it out of your system and tell your best friend how you feel. Trust me you'll feel WAY better about yourself, and your friend will understand. Plus if you just leave it inside of you and don't tell anyone than you'll just end up feeling worse. But anyway you deal with it, good luck!!