ahmedabukhatwa
Jun 7, 2010, 08:48 PM
thank you for entering the topic, and thanks for your time reading my problem and thinking for a solution.. I really need your help experts :)
she's a family friend, and she's the first girl other than my relatives that I knew in my life, we used to see each other in family meetings like every 2-3 years once! We always had those small conversations, until we grew and I saw her 2 years ago, after since, we've been getting close to each other, in my community, getting close = texting and chatting on msn, we can see each other once monthly, not pre-planned! I loved her so much, although 90% of our memories are msn conversations :S.. we used to chat over 9 hours daily.. and then I fell in love with her, deep love, she turned to be everything in my life, I thought of her 24/7, and I really loved every single detail about her.. and one day, she asked me to reduce our chats because its not a right thing! ( in our community, you shouldn't get so close to a girl before marriage ), I told her, you already know me, and know that a guy like me won't get that close to a girl except if he's considering proposing to her.. she answered me that she doesn't have any feelings to me, she likes me , she likes to talk to me, she even miss me, but she doesn't feel anything towards me, I am like her brother, but a brother she enjoys having him around.. that's what she said, and I believe she's honest about everything she says, after it.. I disappeared for a while and then come back and treated her as a sister, while she was never a sister to me, and after a while, I told her that! That she's not a sister to me like I was claiming.. now I took a decision and I told her I can't stand having her as just a friend.. and I decided to go away from her and stop talking with her, and she said if that was my decision then she respects it and supports me..
I really don't know what to do :)
please experts, advice me with the right thing.. thank you in advance, thank you for your time..
Regards,
Ahmed.
she's a family friend, and she's the first girl other than my relatives that I knew in my life, we used to see each other in family meetings like every 2-3 years once! We always had those small conversations, until we grew and I saw her 2 years ago, after since, we've been getting close to each other, in my community, getting close = texting and chatting on msn, we can see each other once monthly, not pre-planned! I loved her so much, although 90% of our memories are msn conversations :S.. we used to chat over 9 hours daily.. and then I fell in love with her, deep love, she turned to be everything in my life, I thought of her 24/7, and I really loved every single detail about her.. and one day, she asked me to reduce our chats because its not a right thing! ( in our community, you shouldn't get so close to a girl before marriage ), I told her, you already know me, and know that a guy like me won't get that close to a girl except if he's considering proposing to her.. she answered me that she doesn't have any feelings to me, she likes me , she likes to talk to me, she even miss me, but she doesn't feel anything towards me, I am like her brother, but a brother she enjoys having him around.. that's what she said, and I believe she's honest about everything she says, after it.. I disappeared for a while and then come back and treated her as a sister, while she was never a sister to me, and after a while, I told her that! That she's not a sister to me like I was claiming.. now I took a decision and I told her I can't stand having her as just a friend.. and I decided to go away from her and stop talking with her, and she said if that was my decision then she respects it and supports me..
I really don't know what to do :)
please experts, advice me with the right thing.. thank you in advance, thank you for your time..
Regards,
Ahmed.