Can ilr be revoked, my wife has been having an affair I believe before she was granted ilr . And she has now left the family home and is living with another man
I had my suspicions before she left me as she did not come home on three separate occasions and staying ouy all night stating she was at a girl friends but failing to give me any details.she has had her ilr for abot 3/4 months

Well maybe she in a time when she needs to have some fun, or she really could be cheating the facts you are giving do seem like she doing something low, if u have a friend that don't mind following her or you can try look through some of her stuff.

Whatever u find out stay calm, things just happen and try to go on with your life don't do anything stupid