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Mrs.Scotty
Jun 2, 2010, 08:35 PM
I have had my period since I was 11 years old, At the age of 13 my mother decided I needed to be put on birth control just to be safe. I had normal periods came every month and of course I hated it. After receiving my first DEPO shot I didn't like it and wanted to switch to the pill. After doing this I kept forgetting to take the pill and just quit doing birth control all together and used condoms. When I was 15 or 16 got seriouse with a guy I liked and wanted to have his baby (don't ask why lol) we tried and tried and tried but nothing happened so not using any contraception I kept trying and no baby. There is nothing wrong with me according to my doctor I am a little over weight but there are tuns of over weight people who get pregnant. I have noticed then after I stopped taking the birth control my periods got all out of whack wouldn't show up for 3 or 4 months or it wouldn't stop for 3 or 4 months and this is how I have been living with it since that time. Now almost 21 and married (not to same guy) I can't for the life of me get pregnant we have been having unprotected sex for 4 years now and nothing has happened. I had been diagnosed with HPV but as far as my doctor is concerned I have been cured of this and again nothing is wrong with me... What is wrong with me anyone know?

Also lately my period is consisting of small,medium and almost large blood clots.

DoulaLC
Jun 6, 2010, 08:51 AM
After four years of trying, and with irregular cycles, it is time to ask your doctor about having some testing done. What have they checked so far to determine nothing is wrong? It may be as simple as getting your cycles regular. Wouldn't hurt to have your husband tested as well as there often can be a male component, or a combination of both, that needs to be dealt with.