Have a 1994 Honda Civic. Car starts intermittently. Have replaced the fuel pump 3 x's. Car might start 4 (5,6... ) x's in a row, and then not start the next "4" (varies every time we try it.) Any suggestions?

Also: Was advised to replace the fuel pump relay but cannot locate it. (?)

Thank you.

Odds are it is NOT the fuel pump. Read this and you will see why:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/cars-trucks/faq-how-troubleshoot-repair-maintain-hondas-selected-other-vehicles-46563-7.html#post1245523