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Allabouthavingfun
May 29, 2010, 03:47 AM
Okay, so I began liking this guy at my school, he's in 10th and Im in 9th grade. I started liking him a bit but tried to keep away cause my friend liked him before. Ive talked to her and she's okay with it.. Hes a kind of snobby person, but still nice with some. He likes to party, but we go to a very "hard" school, so there's not much time to do so. Im a very social person, I have a lot of friends. Im nice and pretty(it has nothing to do with it but people tell me so.. ) You could say I'm the popular girl, but I'm always nice to everyone. Ive never talked to him.. Even if I talk to some of the people from his class.. I don't to him. He always hangs out with two friends and some girls but not that much. It all started with looks... I was walking on the street and saw him coming and there he looked and sort of smiled I think... ANother time was in the pizzaria where I was with some friends and he was there with 1 friend.. There my frind told me he looked at me and smiled and his friend looked at what he looked at and then kind of pushed him a little like "uuh i saw you there" haha.. After that we've looked at each other many times.. But he's very shy so he doesn't do much.. This past week there has been nothing.. Its like he's not interested anymore if he ever was or something.. for example I was walking down the stairs and then he came up and he didn't even look he looked down.. :( (im not friends with he's closest friends) So what should I do? Were these even signs that he was interested or is it just me?. Im not very shy but I just wouldn't know how to approach him at school or talk to him.. Heeeelp :)

Allabouthavingfun
May 30, 2010, 06:21 AM
Anybody? :) oh and once he accidentally kind of bumped into me so our hands touched...

I wish
May 30, 2010, 10:09 AM
Just go up to him and say "Hi, how's it going?"? You don't need to do anything too fancy. Keep ti simple. Does he know your name?

RadioActive697
May 30, 2010, 03:50 PM
I wish is right. Just say hi or how was your day. Start a conversation. And while you are talking, try to get to know him better. :)

Allabouthavingfun
May 31, 2010, 10:55 AM
Yeah... I just think it would be weird at school just to approach him and he's kind of snob... But do you think he is interested? Even if I don't know him.. He might just think like me.. :)

RadioActive697
May 31, 2010, 01:11 PM
Well from what I read it does seem that he likes you and he's just afraid to tell you, like you are. But you said he is a snob so if you talk to him just be yourself and just be natural.

Allabouthavingfun
May 31, 2010, 01:44 PM
I know I should approach him but he's shy.. And I don't know how to start talking to him without being weird. I can't just go up to him and say Hey, what's up? :)

Allabouthavingfun
Jun 2, 2010, 08:31 AM
Today he walked by me and then turned around just to watch me.. at least that's what my friends told me...

I wish
Jun 2, 2010, 10:14 AM
He's shy but he's also a snob?

You're overanalzying him too much. Just go up to him and stop thinking so much.

If he wants to talk to you, he will, nor matter how to approach him.

If he doesn't want to talk to you, then it doesn't matter how you approach him.

Does he want to talk to you? He has the answer, you just have to find out from him.

Allabouthavingfun
Jun 3, 2010, 08:21 AM
I guess.. but my school is very isolated and its really hard to approach people just like that... unless its at a party, but we don't go to the same partys..

I wish
Jun 3, 2010, 08:37 AM
If you don't talk to him, how is he going to get to know you better?

You're the one who wants to get to know him better, so you should go for it.

The problem I see is that you're too shy. School is the perfect place to meet new people and make new friends.

Allabouthavingfun
Jun 11, 2010, 01:56 PM
Yeah... but now its too late... but its hard just too approach someone.. and I ahvent really thought of things to say.. and usually I'm not shy at all! That sucks! Because now I like him even more.. we looked at each other on and off for an hour :S and it was also long looks.. and smiles...