Our chemistry seemed very good. We kissed on the second date and then again when I left. Now I'm back home and can't stop thinking about her. I'm not sure if she saw it as just a "Vegas" hookup thing or more. It's been two days since I left, is it too soon to call? I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I like someone I usually let them know, but this is a little different because of the distance between us (3.5 hours and it was Vegas). Any advise or insight would be appreciated.

Call her up and say hello.
It may have just been Vegas. How long were two there each other and how old are you?
It could be that it was really cool and you're still thinking about it, but it was only a weekend.

Honestly, you'll never know unless you try.
At the worst it will have just been a vegas thing and you can write it off as a nice weekend. Good memories with no further developments.
If it does go well, then that's great. :)

I usually wouldn't use relationship and Vegas in the same sentence but just because it took place in sin city doesn't mean it can't be real.

Maybe ask to meet again for another weekend?

Just call. She gave you the number right? Then use it.

I have to ask, are you male or female?

Because most guys would have called by now.

Give it a shot. The worst that can happen is that she rejects you, but you won't have to stop wondering. The best that can happen is that you keep in touch, possibility see each other more often and start a new relationship.

This is a low risk, high reward scenario.

Yeah and remember, "what happenes in Vegas, stays in Vegas". That is unless you're married.

I'd call. You won't know how interested she is unless you do.

Good luck!

I would just call and find out.

I would just call and find out.







Call her!

Nothing ventured nothing gained Buddy. She may be sitting there thinking " I wonder why he hasn't called"

Only 1 way to find out.

Have you called her yet?? Times a wasting!

Have you called her yet??? Times a wasting!






Do it... I dare ya:D

Nothing ventured nothing gained Buddy. She may be sitting there thinking " I wonder why he hasn't called"

Only 1 way to find out.

Thanks for all the advice. I did call her and found out that we are on the same page. However, I sent a "hope you had a great day" text two days ago and haven't received a reply or phone call. Should I just wait until she text me back? Or, give it a couple more days and call or text her? Thanks, girls!;)

Thanks for all the advice. I did call her and found out that we are on the same page. However, I sent a "hope you had a great day" text two days ago and haven't received a reply or phone call. Should I just wait until she text me back? Or, give it a couple more days and call or text her? Thanks, girls!;)



Wait till you hear from her.. Good Luck!:)

Maybe she doesn't have a text plan. Why not call her again instead?

Maybe she doesn't have a text plan. Why not call her again instead?

No, she does have a plan. We have texted before. Thx.

I still think that you should call her. Your last message to her was: "I hope you had a great day". It's not like you asked a question for her to respond to. What do you expect her to say?

I'd say, call her again and keep getting to know each other better. If she wanted to talk to you, she would pick up nor matter when you call. If she wanted to ignore you, it won't matter how many days you wait, she will ignore you anyway.

No, she does have a plan. We have texted before. Thx.

Then wait for her to call you or call and ask her if she is interested in getting to know each other better. What have you got to lose?;)

I still think that you should call her. Your last message to her was: "I hope you had a great day". It's not like you asked a question for her to respond to. What do you expect her to say?

I'd say, call her again and keep getting to know each other better. If she wanted to talk to you, she would pick up nor matter when you call. If she wanted to ignore you, it won't matter how many days you wait, she will ignore you anyway.

Ah, good point, it wasn't anything she had to reply to. I will call her again.
However, the next time I text her, which would be more attractive to receive? Something like, "You just popped into my head so, hi...now please stay out of there." Or, more sincere like, " Was just thinking about you". I don't want to sound too needy. Thx girls!

Ah, good point, it wasn't anything she had to reply to. I will call her again.
However, the next time I text her, which would be more attractive to receive? Something like, "You just popped into my head so, hi...now please stay out of there." Or, more sincere like, " Was just thinking about you". I don't want to sound too needy. Thx girls!

By the way, I'm a guy.

I would say neither. Maybe when you get more comfortable with each other you can use those lines. Stick with the traditional "hey, how's it going?" If she was interested in getting to you know better, she would respond. It won't matter what you say to her, so why not take a less risky route?

By the way, I'm a guy.

I would say neither. Maybe when you get more comfortable with each other you can use those lines. Stick with the traditional "hey, how's it going?" If she was interested in getting to you know better, she would respond. It won't matter what you say to her, so why not take a less risky route?

Oops, my bad. I'll keep that in mind. Thx!

Oops, my bad. I'll keep that in mind. Thx!




Just be yourself , the guy you were in Vegas. Were you a nice guy in Vegas:D

Oops, my bad. I'll keep that in mind. Thx!

Or you could be like "hey there how's it going? I haven't talked to you in a little while and i wanted to see how you are. Anything new going on?"

That's a conversation starter.

I think it's important to remember also that if something does come of this , that long distance relationships can be a lot harder to maintain than normal ones. So before you invest anymore of yourself in this , read some material on the pitfalls etc. of LDR's and make up your mind whether your up for it.

I think it's important to remember also that if something does come of this , that long distance relationships can be a lot harder to maintain than normal ones. So before you invest anymore of yourself in this , read some material on the pitfalls etc. of LDR's and make up your mind whether your up for it.





Sad but true... M has made a very good point I didn't even think about. There could be a lot of stress in maintaining a LDR. Also Vegas is a swinging town and sometimes things are more romantic in a place like that. :)