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maria254
May 22, 2010, 07:57 AM
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Umm... well I have this friend and she went out with my boyfriend before but, I did not know.they only went out for a week. When I started going out with him she acted really weird when I was with him. So I just ignored it to see what would happen. So then she made up a really big lie and I believed it. [i believed her cause I thought she was my best friend] well then I find out it was not true. So I said whatever and I just let it go. But she is still trying to break us up. And I already talked to my boyfriend and he knows the situation. But they still talk and hug. Like no matter what I do or what I say they won't stay away from each other. And I really love him!! And I don't want to lose him for her and she already has a boyfriend/:( what should I do?

talaniman
May 22, 2010, 08:38 AM
You should think do you really need this drama from a "boyfriend" and a so called friend? Is he worth it, given his not telling you about dating your friend, and still messing with her knowing she has a boyfriend of her own?

Even after YOU talked to him, he still does what he is doing. That's a red flag that maybe your feelings for him are misplaced, and he isn't as into you, as you are him, and she is NOT your friend.

I think you remove them from your life, and replace them with people who are more honest, and NOT backstabbers.

Then you would be enjoying yourself, and not be looking over your shoulder.

whuddupcuteface5
Jun 23, 2010, 10:37 PM
In friendship the number one rule is to not date EX'S!! She is obviously hurt that you are dating her ex. She might still have feelings for him. The reason why your boyfriend is acting all goody goody with your friend because he wants you all to be friends try to work things with your best friend. Do you really want to lose your best friend over a silly fight over a guy?

Gabbibaby
May 23, 2012, 07:44 PM
Do u know u they broke up? Because they might still like each other...