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pease
May 16, 2010, 11:22 PM
Hi friends
I am married I have 11 months old daughter. I am in my fathers home, my hubby is abroad. My father takes care of me and my child. Two days before me and my father had some arguments he shouted at me, and beat me once because of my fault. I scold my mother that's why he get angry and scold me. I got angry on my father I said don't beat me if you beat me I broke your hand. So he upset on my words. Till now he didn't spoke with me he always drop and pick up me from bus stand far away from my home. Now he did not come to me to drop and pick up. I ask sorry for him but he really feel my words. He didn't convince. At the same time I said this issues to my husband he said what a family you are and scold my family. I want back my father to speak with me and take care on me as like past . What can I do advice me.

talaniman
May 17, 2010, 06:09 AM
Scolding your mom is disrespectful so find a better way to get your side across rather than scold or fight your parents.

Respect your parents, as it's their house, and they are helping you and your child. Act from gratitude, without the attitude.

I think you show a better way of doing things, and in time the anger will be gone. For now, you take your medicine and do better in the future.