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onelife2go
Apr 28, 2010, 11:18 AM
Early in this relationship I made a couple mistakes which made her put a wall up! It seemed to me that if I didn't tell her how I felt now I would lose my chance so I did in an uncomfortable manner. I think I scared her away and I can't seem to stop pushing her further away. Can I save this?

I wish
Apr 28, 2010, 11:53 AM
If you're going to make this relationship, it's going to take continuous hard work. If you feel like this is your "last chance," then I can tell you that this relationship will end sooner or later.

How can the relationship have any security when there's only one straw left? One straw is very weak and can break at any second. So even if you preserved that last screw, you're still on the last straw.

Hard work means to strengthen the straw, get more straws, get stronger straws that don't break so easily.

My advice to you is to tell her how you feel. Be honest. Then the ball will be on her side of the court to see if she's willing to continue the relationship.

Devorameira
Apr 29, 2010, 07:37 AM
You've got to totally back away from this one. You've already done too much talking!

Relationships take time and can't be rushed! SLOW DOWN!

talaniman
Apr 29, 2010, 09:13 AM
Leave her to figure you out, miss you, or forgive you. But leave her alone. Balls in her court, so you do nothing.