Umm well my secret is that I'm BI and I recently had a sleepover with my bestest friends and we all had to strip but the problem is after that I don't think I can tell them I'm BI because they both hate lesbos and I've seen them both naked! And if I tell them now they are guna think I'm nasty and not be my friends! What shld I do?

Why did you all HAVE to strip?

If telling them you are "bi" will cause a problem, then don't tell them.

Yes I know I shldnt tell them but since they are my best friends I feel as if I'm hiding things from them and I don't want to hide things from my best friends!

How old are you?

Right now your body is going through so many changes [assuming you're a teen], you really don't know if your bi yet. You still have many years of sexual experimenting and finding out who you are.

If you can't keep it from your friends you should tell them. Not when your all naked of course, but when your at a sleepover or hanging out someplace.

If they stomp off and decide to hate you then they were never your friends to begin with.

My best friend, whom I have known since I was in high school tole me she was Bi. For the longest time she kept it from me, when she finally told me, I admit it I was a bit uncomfortable but I got over it she's my best friend where she is sexually shouldn't be a problem with our friendship.

I can barely read any of the OP's posts. It's English, right?

yes i kno i shldnt tell them but since they are my best friends i feel as if im hiding things from them and i dont wanna hide things from my best friends!!


Then I don't know what "advice" you are looking for.

"Should you tell them?" No.

"I know I shouldn't tell them but I feel as if I'm hiding things." What response do you want?

You don't agree with telling them and you don't agree with not telling them. Those are your two choices.

I see from your profile that you are able to assist people with all sorts of relationship problems. How old are you? When did you realize you are bi? How many sexual experiences have you had with males and females?

How much longer is spring break and, again, why are you and your friends stripping?

MonkeyGurl - I think its unfair for you to come on a forum and look for an answer that you ARE EXPECTING and HOPING you get.

A couple of people said NO don't tell them. But then you state you feel dishonest. Well Then I am assuming you want everyone to tell you to TELL THEM and see if they can accept this ?

Ok so tell them then. That will make you feel much better.

That's exactly the answer you are expecting. And that's exactly what you need to tell them.


Besides that's the only thing that will relieve you . Beyond that , you just got to pray they accept you and stay friends.

That's the risk you have to take. Hallelujah !

We were at a sleepover and it was just us three! But umm.. I think ima tell them and see what there reaction is!

You never answered my question - how do you know you're bi? What is your dating experience?

I know I'm bi because I like girls more than friends. I just find myself attracted to them. And I've dated girls and boys!

i kno im bi because i like girls more than friends. i just find myself attracted to them. and ive dated girls and boys!!

If you have dated a girl, wouldn't your best friends know and the rest of your school?

i kno im bi because i like girls more than friends. i just find myself attracted to them. and ive dated girls and boys!!
And remember the words you live by: "Boys are like purses; full of crap and easy to replace!"

No, boys are like buses - one pulls up every 10 minutes.

And I agree - if this girl is dating girls her best friends would know about it.