I lost my first true love 8 years ago following an argument. I eventually married (someone else) and had a couple of kids. Throughout my marriage, I thought of the one I lost. Needless to say, I divorced a couple years ago. The one that got away married and divorced as well. I used to dream about bumping into him but never did (except once). Then over 6 years later, I saw him. I was so ashamed because I was in comfy clothes, no makeup, hair a mess that I didn't even get out of my van. He was talking with another man and kept looking my way as so did I. When I finally did get out (maybe a minute), he was back in his truck, looked at me and drove away. I don't know what to make of my feelings. Why do I still think of me to bring me peace? Why do I still hope to see him? Why did I freeze when I had waited so long for that moment? I have a relative that bumped into him and grabbed his phone number. Should I ask for it and call him? Should I do anything at all or let fate do as it will? Any advice would be great.

If you are concerned enough to post the question I'd obtain the phone number, give him a call and say "hi." See where it goes from there.

I lost my first true love 8 years ago following an argument.

Sorry to say you are living in a dream world. If it was really true love, hum how can I say this delicately. You guys would have not went your separate ways over an argument. It was doomed not too last and quite honestly who knows might be different now but to say you were all worried about makeup and other stuff. Sounds to me that you care more about your appearance then what is within you. Which is more important?