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terminatorjodie
Apr 15, 2010, 05:28 PM
Hi there,
I am a young girl and have a story to tell you all. About me and the love off my life. Well...
Well, I am a very sociable individual in my group of friends and I have been attracted to a certain boy in my pack of friends. I have been sleeping with him for about 4 month now and I am starting to full further and further in love with him, I started a diary jut for him, I text him every ing day. He doesn't like me back he just seems to like me when were just us two and having sex. I love him so bad I haven't told him I love him, I told him I like him but he said he didn't want a girlfriend as he split out of a 2 year relationship a year ago which I understand, I get extremely jealous of him around other girls, I can see us two in the future happy. I get told that me and him would have beautiful baby's and we should get together but I'm too scared to tell him because I'm scared our friendship will break, no one knows we are still having sex now.

Help me pleaaaase! I don't think I can live without him

friend4u178
Apr 15, 2010, 07:45 PM
He's using you as his Booty call , why would he want to commit to a Relationship when he can have what he wants without commitment.

STOP having Sex with him and that'll show you what he really feels about you.

Lucky098
Apr 15, 2010, 10:19 PM
I agree with friend!

He keeps you around because you're easy. You let him take advantage of your feelings, whether he's aware of them or not... He's getting everything for free.

Stop putting out and see if he still hangs around. If he stops talking to you completely, then you'll know that you were nothing more than a piece of @$$.

If you really do like him, then you need to stop making yourself so available. You're too available for someone who isn't interested in you. The only real reason he's probably putting up with you is because you are an easy lay.

Be smart... Make those boys chase you.. don't chase them, and please, stop giving out the milk for free! Make them buy the cow first!

Showme_urmove
Apr 15, 2010, 10:33 PM
first of all, it sounds like you have no self respect, how can you expect any man to respect you if you just see sex as something to feel good and not something that they should earn. Like what they said your nothing but a booty call, I would do the same if someone opens up like 7/11. Sorry to sound rude but you need to start respecting your body, so you can have a real man that can treat you with love.

you mentioned that he just broke up with his ex of 2 yrs, you are also his rebound, not just a rebound but a rebound of no commitment. YOur like his early christmas gift. YOu don't deserve him, you don't deserve any relationship at this moment, you need to focus on yourself and start having some value in life. Sorry for sounding rude!

Romefalls19
Apr 16, 2010, 05:13 AM
Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free?

talaniman
Apr 16, 2010, 08:47 AM
I'm too scared to tell him because I'm scared our friendship will break, no one knows we are still having sex now... help me pleaaaase! I don't think I can live without him

Stop being his secret bootie call, and get some real friends. Then you can help yourself.

elphesia
Nov 20, 2013, 10:29 PM
Just leave him and then he will realishow much he likes you! And if he doesn't, his loss.