stark1
Apr 13, 2010, 05:17 AM
I am confused on this one.She and I were friends,she was involved for several years with someone.We had an instant attraction,and acted on it once or twice.Since it was unclear even to her what there relationship was we did'nt do that again.
A short time later,he dumps her,she's devistated... soon I am spending every night with her.We had a very passionate fling,she told me she does;nt want a boyfriend,I was fine with that,I knew she was hurting and it hurt me to see her like that.We found it hard to get out of bed and we made out like we were in high school.She said she was falling in love with me,but it was obvious we already were in love.So now I know it was a rebound.The thing is there was too much passion and straight up lust between us,that does;nt happen that offen in this life.I miss that and I miss her.
That's right ,she moved away.I helped her pack and yardsale and loaded the truck.She came back a week later to get her car.I went with her.We went to a nice hotel overlooking the beach.We sat on the balcony at night and kissed.
I know it never would have lasted,relationships are too confining for me and I tend to push women away,but I really miss this one and it seems are friendship is collateral damage.She says we can see each other when we see each other so its loose. but I think we have seen the absolute best part of each other and I wonder if that fire will still be there.The downside of rebounds is where I am right now.
What do I do
A short time later,he dumps her,she's devistated... soon I am spending every night with her.We had a very passionate fling,she told me she does;nt want a boyfriend,I was fine with that,I knew she was hurting and it hurt me to see her like that.We found it hard to get out of bed and we made out like we were in high school.She said she was falling in love with me,but it was obvious we already were in love.So now I know it was a rebound.The thing is there was too much passion and straight up lust between us,that does;nt happen that offen in this life.I miss that and I miss her.
That's right ,she moved away.I helped her pack and yardsale and loaded the truck.She came back a week later to get her car.I went with her.We went to a nice hotel overlooking the beach.We sat on the balcony at night and kissed.
I know it never would have lasted,relationships are too confining for me and I tend to push women away,but I really miss this one and it seems are friendship is collateral damage.She says we can see each other when we see each other so its loose. but I think we have seen the absolute best part of each other and I wonder if that fire will still be there.The downside of rebounds is where I am right now.
What do I do