I've been married for a long, long time. My husband left me, but now is talking to me again. He says he wants a divorvce and has offered a settlement. However, he is being so nice and caring it makes me think there is the possibilitie of a reconciliation. So, which is it? How are things going to work out?

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You are the one that holds the answer to your question.

Has the reason you split up in the first place chainged? If not then it doesn't matter hw nice he is to you now, it will resurface and could be worse than before.

Talking to him in an open and honest way is the only real chance you have at getting what you want. Tell him what it is you want out of the relationship, and if he cannot give it to you with both hands open, then you need to move on.

Hope this helps,

Mylena36 8)