ranrounaaaaa
Apr 11, 2010, 05:00 AM
Hi, I am 30 years old and I have been dating a man who is 4 years older than me, we have been together for almost 2 years. He used to work overseas for 11 years in a third world country which means he didn't have the chance to experience the pleasure of partying, going out, dating... etc
We first met through Facebook while he was still abroad for that we only had chat and phone calls between us for 6 months. Than he came back to his home town for good and we started going out. I thought that our relationship is serious but the problem was that he wanted to live the life that he missed before, going out with many girls without having a serious relation so he felt that I was standing in his way, he was lost and couldn t decide what he wants, he wanted me and he was afraid to lose me saying that he got used to me, he likes the way I think, he trusts me a lot, he enjoys my company, But above all that he still feels that there is something missing so he started going out with other girls and lying.
Few months ago, I decided to go out with a new guy because I am fed up from the situation, the thing that made him loose his mind. So he did everything to win me back and he succeeded.
Lately, we had a conversation about our relation, because I am feeling that he is losing his feelings towards me even though he is spending more time with me and he is not seeing other girls.
He was so honest by saying that he sees in me the girl that he feels comfortable with and share his life with but the problem is that he doesn't know is he loves me or not. He wanted me to help him discover his feelings towards me... He is confused and not happy at all..
Please guide us on the right way!
We first met through Facebook while he was still abroad for that we only had chat and phone calls between us for 6 months. Than he came back to his home town for good and we started going out. I thought that our relationship is serious but the problem was that he wanted to live the life that he missed before, going out with many girls without having a serious relation so he felt that I was standing in his way, he was lost and couldn t decide what he wants, he wanted me and he was afraid to lose me saying that he got used to me, he likes the way I think, he trusts me a lot, he enjoys my company, But above all that he still feels that there is something missing so he started going out with other girls and lying.
Few months ago, I decided to go out with a new guy because I am fed up from the situation, the thing that made him loose his mind. So he did everything to win me back and he succeeded.
Lately, we had a conversation about our relation, because I am feeling that he is losing his feelings towards me even though he is spending more time with me and he is not seeing other girls.
He was so honest by saying that he sees in me the girl that he feels comfortable with and share his life with but the problem is that he doesn't know is he loves me or not. He wanted me to help him discover his feelings towards me... He is confused and not happy at all..
Please guide us on the right way!