My mum and dad, they don't get on any more.. he told her f or the past 27 years he's felt nothing only stayed because of the kids , thing is he going through a nervous breakdown slash mid life crisis , he promised there's nobody else... but its also because he detests my brother who yes might be selling drugs. He just won't stop going on how much he hates it.. sure I hate it too but you can't control his life and pick out what you want him to be... you just can't he's his own person at the end of the day.. someday he won't be around so I chose to get over it not dread on it and savour the moments he's here,, but dad just can't do that.. they haven't spoken in 4 years dad thinks mum is choosing my brother over him but she's not she just refuses to her kids out.. we have to sell our house but dads not coming to the new house because my bro will be there and he's not ready or something like that I don't get it... I feel trapped and very depressed for a long time now .no one understands

I'm sorry but its not up to you if they stay together I tried to make my parents stay together feel lucky you sort of eased into it one morning I woke up and my mom just said her and my dad were breaking up but one thing I found can help is sit down with your grandparents and see what they have to say that helped me a littlte