Hi, help me.
I love this man, and we have lived together for almost 3 years now. I don't know if it's me or what. Is it right for him to help out his friends before me? He has never bought me anything for any occasion in 3 years. I'm not greedy, but that hurts my feelings. He always thinks it is me that is miserable, never him. Does he have issues or am I blind?

Sherri-DOB-2/21/64
Jim-DOB-8/24/71

Every healthy relationship needs reciprocity or it will die... if he always puts other people before you, then there is something wrong with your relationship and how he views you; you need to communicate to him how you feel... he may not even be aware of how you feel.

Does he want marriage eventually? Does he really love
Me? I thought we were soulmates, but I guess I'm the only one who can see that.

Before you think about marriage, you need to get your relationship straightened out. You must have open, clear communcation with him and tell him how you feel (in a calm, concise manner)and fix what is broken first... no sense in binding yourself to a marriage before you get these other issues worked out.