I'm 19 yrs old been with my boyfriend (he is 22 yrs old) nearly 4yrs now. However when we have sex he will orgasm every time and he will also try to make me orgasm too.But I can get close to it, but I can't ever let it go I always make him stop, which makes him feel that he isn't satifing me but he is. Which make me feel bad as I have orgasmed once before with him, I think I was in the first yr we were together, so I no I can but it is really upsetting that my body or mind isn't letting me do orgasm again. Someone plaese help!!

Are you pre-occupied with school? Work? Family? Perhaps let loose in the bedroom. Leave your problems/stress/life at the door and enjoy the moment. Perhaps trying something new. Positions/role playing/etc.

Are you able and do you do it when you are by yourself

I've only ever had 1 orgasm and it was with my boyfriend however I now get really close but can't let myself go!!