I've had an irregular pattern of period for the past 3 years. Recently, my boyfriend fingered me, 20 minutes after playing with himself. He wiped the sperm off, but did not use water of soap. Is there a chance I can be pregnant?

Secondly, when I sleep with my boyfriend, his precum is all over the bed sheets, is there a chance I can be pregnant!

I've just missed my last 2 periods in a row and I am on a chinese herbal medicine to readjust my period. I feel nauseous early in the morning and late evenings. I've taken a pregnancy test and the results were negative. My stomach is also getting rounder and bigger, my breasts are getting a bit swollen nothing serious. I have no back ache. But I do feel sleepy and tired.

I've also been undergoing lots of stress and been gaining a lot of weight, a drastic change on my diet.

What are the chances I can be pregnant?

Thanks for any reply.

What chinese herbal med are you on? Did your doctor prescribe it? This alone could be the cause of your symptoms.

Your symptoms do sound as though you are pregnant. But pre-ejaculate on bed sheets will not cause pregnancy.

If you have missed 2 periods you should be going to the doctor. I don't mean to sound harsh, but I am sure you know that one of the first symptoms of pregnancy is missing a period, right?

Make a doctor's appointment.

Yes it's a doctor prescribed chinese herbal medicine. It's usual for me to miss more than 3 periods in a row just lately my boyfriend fingered me and I'm scared I'm pregnant. And I'm scared I might be pregnant.

If you are scared you might be pregnant, you should go back to the doctor. But "fingering" does not usually cause pregnancy, even if it was 20 minutes later and he "cleaned" himself up.

Can I ask the name of the medicine?

How old are you. This may have a great bearing on why you are missing periods also.