OK so this woman I work with of 4 years, we dated 2 years ago for 6 months. She was talking to her ex and so was I so we stopped seeing each other then became friends with benefits...
She left work and traveled a bit before deciding to come back to where we work. She was mad at me for not stopping her from leaving and at the time I wasn't that interested from other reasons.

She and I are finally in a good place to be with each and we both are still attracted to each other from what I can tell? She s a pretty secretive person, so I finally seriously wanted to start dating her only to find out she's dating some jackass she use to date a few years back who cheated on her. I really want to be with her and its killing me lately. I am always nice to her and lately at work she argues with me about nothing... mind you I always compliment her and make her laugh. Our chemistry is good.
So this past Saturday night we worked and everything I did she had something negative to say.. so I texted her a few things as why she treats me like.. and she didn't think she was... then said she would try to be more careful...
So today (wed) she sends me a text "hi" I don't respond... 5 hours later sends me "are you still mad at me" this shows me she is thinking about me, but to what degree? And if she cared that much wouldn't she call me instead? I usually shoot her a nice text once in awhile to say hello or compliment her... well I haven't cared since we fought sat night. Sometimes she acts like she might want something then doesn't.. bare in mind she has a boyfriend, she lead son she still wants to see me "if she could"
Not sure how to decipher the night and day attitude I get from her or what to do if I still have a chance of making things right with her?!

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/should-ask-her-out-179412.html

Is this the same girl.

No... this is a girl I dated after all the crap I went through with my last post.

You're still friends with benefits, and I doubt you will ever be more. Either get with her program, or get gone.

She has a boyfriend, so you're the dude on the side she cheats with, so know your place, or leave her alone.

Its you fault for trying to have more than she will give you.


bare in mind she has a boyfriend, she lead son she still wants to see me "if she could"
Don't know what this mean, and only after "spell checking this crappy written post did I half understand it.

Why would you want to be with someone who is dating somebody else,and cheats on them?

With you.