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padam
Mar 21, 2010, 01:11 AM
I love her and she is daughter of my mother's sister. She also love me. I don't know what to do friends give me advice
Showme_urmove
Mar 21, 2010, 01:20 AM
Dude that makes you guys related. Your mother's sister is your aunt, so that makes her daughter your cousin. Even though you guys do end up being together if you guys have kids there is a high change of it turning out deform or retarded. There is many girls out there for you, find one that's not your cousin. And if you guys date your whole family will have problem about it and that's not good for you 2. Good luck man hope you don't date your cousin
talaniman
Mar 21, 2010, 06:05 AM
Of course you love each other, your supposed to, she is family, but there will be hell to pay for crossing the lines of good behavior with anything sexual. The whole family will rip you a new one, so treat her as family, because she is, just like your sister.
Jake2008
Mar 21, 2010, 11:08 PM
I get the feeling that the two of you have already gone too far if you are in love with each other.
Is it legal where you are to have relations with your first cousin? I'm no expert on that, or the laws pertaining to it, but check that out.
You also didn't mention your age, or her age, which could be an important factor here as well.
I hope you know what you're doing.
Larken85
Mar 21, 2010, 11:37 PM
Wow I kissed my first cousin when I was like 6 and I got grounded for months. The reason being that you cannot date someone that closely related to you. Did you know that when a population of deer breeds too close to their own blood line and it causes defects, those same deer are subject to population control (basically sentenced to death by firing squad). Of course we do not do this to humans, however the reasons that people do not date people they are related to are the same as the reasons we get to hunt deer in areas that have too many deer in too close of an area. It is not an absolute fact that your baby will have defects, but it is a very strong possibility from what I hear. I am no expert on the subject but that is what I have been led to believe and that is my opinion on it.
kp2171
Mar 21, 2010, 11:39 PM
Recognize that you can love a woman you cannot be with.
Been there, done that myself.
Accept it. Move on.
hheath541
Mar 22, 2010, 12:06 AM
It's illegal to date, marry, and have sex with your first cousin in most states in the US.
If you choose to pursue this, then prepare for a very hard life. There's a possibility you'll end up in jail. If you have any kids, they'll probably be taken from both of you. You'll never be able to get a legal marriage.
Those are only the legal ramifications. The personal ones will be just as bad, if not worse.
Expect to be disowned by your entire family. Also, expect them all to blame you and feel sorry for her. Expect to lose most, if not all, your friends. Expect to lose any future friends when they find out you're cousins. Expect any children you have to have a higher risk of any number of birth defects ranging from an extra toe to learning disabilities to possibly life threatening heart problems, and anything in between.
You need to decide if you want to risk all that. If not, then you'll have to stop seeing each other. Limit contact to family gatherings, and make sure you're never alone together. Cease all contact. Change your number and get a new email, if you have to. Finally, seek counseling.
jmjoseph
Mar 22, 2010, 01:13 AM
She is your first cousin, call her that, not "your mother's sister's daughter". You share genes with this girl, by having common grandparents. And that makes her off limits.
You could have children with serious birth defects.
Snap out of it.