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crazy x sleek
Nov 30, 2006, 04:34 PM
So this kid I know called me crying because he just brokeup with this girl. I felt so bad. He wanted my advice on what he can do and I didn't know what to say. So I said I'm sorry but I don't know. He is one of my good friends and This girl been going out with him for 3 years. 4 days after he she went out with someone else. He still can't get over her andn itsbeen 2 weeks what should I say to him to help him get over this?:confused:

Fr_Chuck
Nov 30, 2006, 04:42 PM
Nothing maybe, just be there as a friend, normally only time will heal pains

Bluerose
Nov 30, 2006, 04:42 PM
There isn't much you can say except that there is a process to go through, like grieving. Not much can speed up this process. But it is important to take care of yourself. Make sure you are eating and getting enough sleep. With every single day that goes by it will hurt a little less. All you can do is try to stay positive and keep busy.

moyra
Nov 30, 2006, 04:42 PM
There is not that much you can say when someone is grieving over a loss. You just have to listen when they want to talk, be there for them and be a shoulder for them to cry on. Only time can heal these kind of wounds.

He has a great friend in you, how wonderful you are to actively seek advice from others, bravo!

JADY001
Nov 30, 2006, 04:43 PM
Don't try to help there is nothing you can say or do that will help. In time things will get better.

imation
Nov 30, 2006, 04:48 PM
All good posts and all on the right track, just be there for him and if he seems like he needs it distract him from it