OK so me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 9 months and we had a really good relationship at first a lot of partying and stuff when he had his own place. Well he moved home and grew up really fast getting really responsible about school. I just turned 21 and have a lot of partying still left in my blood because that's just the way I am. I could settle down a lot but he's 2o years old and plays video games all of the time and he never used to be like this. We've gotten into arguments about this before but he just does it all the time. I don't know he never used to be like this at all and I don't understand somebody help!

If u care about him id say look past him playn video games. Some people just have that as a hobby Im sure you do things he might think odd or strang to him but doesn't care because its what you like to do do you understand? Remember these words: "U dont loove some one just to love but, Instead u love them because they complete u 1 way or another." As I found out with my ex who I still Love.

Sounds to me like you like him but you are ready to move on. If you feel your social lives will be too different don't settle. It will do him a favor in the long run as well because if you party all the time and he doesn't he may resent that and get jealous or just sick of it. Same with you, may end up finding other men more fun and interesting while he's at home playing video games. If you care about him enough, you two should be able to talk and work something out so that neither of you is upset about one anothers lifestyle. But it seems like a christian trying to date an atheist!

My husband is 30 and he still palying video games, loves his PS2.
Men will be boys...
Leave him play, why not! Find something else to do while he plays.
Talk to him, communicate and come to a mutual decission, compromise with one another.

Also
Patience is a virtue!

Yes, Patience is very important. Thanks for adding that Krs. Men, and boys do like there video games. You can not expect him to party all the time. Maybe he does not want to. Maybe he thinks you party too much. COMPROMISE is very important. It is called Balance. Both you and him need to compromise. There is more to life then partying it up all the time. At the same time there is more to life then just playing video games all the time.

Joe

Baby mens can be boys. And those the kind that love you the most. Don't lose what you have. Let him play the games. As long as he's not in the street doing god knows what. Just chill.

I think your boyfriend is just fine. I think the one here with the problem is you. You still want to party and have a social life. Maybe you're bored of him, and want to see and find new things out there. It looks like he settled down because of you, and became more responsible because of you. I mean if he really loves you and only cares about you, maybe that is why he rather stay home and play video games, because in the end of the night he still has you. In the other hand, when you go out partying loooking for fun in the end of the night you can have him, or someone else?

Maybe you guys should do other fun things together besides partying and playing video games.

I also used to go out and party a lot. But since I got my girfriend that we've been together for 9 months also. I felll in love and realized that life is not just about partying and having fun. I realized that life is all about love. I also became more responsible and started thiking more about the future, and how I can have a happy future with love and not just parties and fun.

I think maybe that's how your boyfriend feels.