My step mom has a chemical imbalance, or so I think. She spoils her two younger kids, with things like mcdonalds, toys, and basically anything they want. Im not complaining about what I get, because I know money is tight. My dad just got laid off, but get this, I can't have ten dollars to go to the movies, while she got fifty dolllars off him to go to bingo? This bingo thing is an everyweekend thing it seems. I'm just upset cause she spends spends spends and complains when I get a dollar. Lets also not forget that she callls me a whore, a slut, a . We got into a fairly large argument a few weeks back and she told me to get the F out her car and F'ing walk my home. Then she told my dad that he has to choose between me or her. Of course he would have chosen me but I guess they "worked things out" but I'm still so fulll of hate for her. I stilll live with this women and we're so fake to each other its hilarious. I resent my dad very much for being with someone whom he knows callls me names.

How old are you? How long have they been married?

We're not going to give you advice on how to "get back" at her. Revenge is unhealthy and there's better ways of dealing with all of this. Is your dad fully aware of all of this? Does he know about the name calling?

What efforts do you make to have a healthy relationship with your step mother? Respect is a two way street, and while she should be the bigger person here and setting an example for you, she's clearly not. But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't be respectful of her. And how is your relationship with your step siblings?

Where is your mother in all of this? Do you have any contact with her?