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Thebestgirl111
Mar 4, 2010, 02:15 PM
I really love this boy, but Im scared to ask him out. He knows I love him, but I want to make sure he will say yes to being my boyfriend. Any ideas on how to get him?

likkleanna
Mar 4, 2010, 03:59 PM
Everybody goes through something like this in their life time. Why not ask him out? Only worse thing that could happen is that he says he no and if so its not the end of the world plenty more fish in the sea... I don't know how long you have known this boy for but if not that long than why not go out first like a date or something take you time build up to that love thing but if you have known him for quite a while than maybe only maybe he doesn't feel the same but what's the point in wondering wasting thoughts and time like I said just ask him, yeah you will be anxious and scared but than at least you will no, right?

Jake2008
Mar 4, 2010, 08:51 PM
One step at a time.

He needs to be your friend, before he takes the step to being your boyfriend.

Build the friendship first, and if you think of it as just hanging out, or going to a movie, and getting to know him, then worrying about the boyfriend part won't be so bad.

You can't predict what his reaction is going to be. Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there and take a chance. If you don't, you will never know what could have been.

Start simple, buddies first, no pressure.

renda_shikor
Oct 12, 2010, 04:01 AM
You just have to ask him out because if you didn't maybe he loves you too who knows the way you say the he loves you it happen to me too I was like you shay but my friend told to to go and I did it and now we are girlfriend and boyfriend it's cool you just have to ask him out if you say {no } that is OK because there is a lots of boy loves you but you don't have to worry about it love is good and bad just remember there is someone loves you and need you hunii