The wife knows who I am and do not cause any drama. My boyfriend is incarcerated and I am holding things down until he comes home. He is talking about marrying me. I want to be happy. He is still married and I love him with all my heart. Am I wrong?

You mean he is incarcerated, right ? If he is legally separated, yes, you are right to feel the way you do. If he is not legally separated, then, there is a problem.

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It's not wrong to love him if he is in fact legally separated from his wife.

He needs to be legally separated or divorced before he can honestly talk about marrying you.

But, if he's still in prison, I'd be taking things VERY slowly.

It may not be wrong to love a guy who is married, and in jail, but is it wise? Not in my book as he has a lot of baggage to address when he gets out before he can keep his promises.

Bet you send him money, and take his collect calls to? Really can't say that's wise either, love or not.

He can get a divorce from jail you know.

I agree that you may be headed for hurt here, but I don't think it's wrong, especially considering that his ex wife has no problem with it.

But, how long are they separated? Why? Is it a legal separation? What is your own home situation? Do you have kids? Does he?

Lil more info and we might be able to help more :)

It's not wrong to be in love with him, but I would worry about protecting yourself! There are so many red flags in what you just said.

Incarcerated?
Married?
AND he wants to get married already?

He hasn't even ended his first marriage and already he wants to jump into another one? Is it possible he wants you to take care of him while he does whatever he wants? Honey, just be careful and don't jump into this relationship too soon until you really get to know him. He doesn't sound like very good marriage material and not even love can repair that.

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