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Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 10:03 PM
We are sixth cousins and really close we act like brother and sister we tell each other everything she also tells me she loves me but in a family way is sixth to close and will it ruin our friendship
I wish
Mar 3, 2010, 06:44 AM
6th cousins means that you have some blood relationships right?
So you say that you're close like brother and sister? Tell me, would you date your sister?
Why not keep the friendship and find someone to have a romantic relationship with?
Tmergs
Mar 3, 2010, 03:52 PM
I'm 15 and I don't have many friends because I am anoying because I have ADHD and I want to make more friends and don't say join clubs because I live in such a small town that there aren't you and there are only like three kids that live in my town and they don't exactly like me so how can I make new friends
Clough
Mar 3, 2010, 07:25 PM
Hi, Tmergs!
How about accentuating the positive rather than the negative?
What are some things that you really like to do, please? Please list as many things that you can. We can help you here, but we do need to know more information about you in order to help you the best.
Thanks!
Tmergs
Mar 3, 2010, 07:36 PM
I like football deer hunting trapshooting music
Help me I'm ugly how can I make myself look better and I'm anoying how can I fix these problems. Oh I'm a guy
Clough
Mar 3, 2010, 07:51 PM
What kind or kinds of music? Do you play a musical instrument or sing?
Tmergs
Mar 3, 2010, 07:57 PM
Edited for grammar
What are the main things that a girl first notices in a guy? How to show a girl that I like her? How to make a girl take the time to get to know you? Pretty much how can I get a girl who doesn't like me. But nobody likes me until they get to know me.
From a girls perspective please.
You have to be our friend first. Flirting is over rated and, if not done right, comes off so tacky.
Relationships develop from friendships.
Tmergs
Mar 3, 2010, 08:17 PM
Niether just like listening to it
macman11393
Mar 3, 2010, 08:48 PM
Try and go for a sport (get in shape) also 15 boys start getting facial hair (im 17 I would know) so shave that off people(as I mean girls) don't usually find it attractive and also on the annoying part its hard to kick I would know first hand but try and to listen to what your saying it AND THE WAY YOU SAY IT - biggy- cause ule pick up what your doing wrong and also THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK that's the best thing if not on how to not be annoying
Well do you go to a public school or private and I'm asking cause your saying you only have 3 kids that live in your town
JoeCanada76
Mar 3, 2010, 08:50 PM
Your only ugly if you think you are. Your only annoying if you think you are. Improve on yourself esteem and the way you think about yourself. That will be the only way to improve on your outlook.
It is all in how you think and not allowing other people to put you down either. If they do not have anything good to say do not listen to it.
Tmergs
Mar 3, 2010, 09:14 PM
Public but like 6 towns go to one school but that is still only like two hundered kids
macman11393
Mar 3, 2010, 09:20 PM
The best way I found to make new friends is just basic stuff strike convos in the classrooms or when choosing partners for projects pick someone you normaly don't go with and it can be someone you kind of know though or have a bonfire at your house and invite people you normally wouldn't with your friends
jaime90
Mar 4, 2010, 11:36 AM
You are focusing on being someone you're not in order to charm a woman, which is manipulative and decietfull. MAKING a woman like you is the wrong way to go. Why not just be friends? Be who you are first?
Ps. And how women take things depends on the woman. If a guy came up to me and tried a one-liner, I'd probably laugh and pass him off as a weirdo, other women might think it's cute, so it really depends.
Lexilulu
Mar 4, 2010, 10:11 PM
Have more self esteem... I know some pretty darn ugly people that are the most popular because they have confidence and high self esteem, and they're just extremely fun to hang around with... Okay, so you are fifteen, If you have facial hair, SHAVE IT. It's pretty annoying when most of my fifteen year old guy friends have LAMMMEEE mustaches, I want to pin them down and shave it myself *haha*... You say you're annoying?. How so?. Hyper, rude, lazy, immature, etc?. Honestly, looks to me (accept the facail hair stuff) don't matter one bit... When I see my 15 year old guy friends I don't think "They are ugglllyy" I think "They're mega fun to be around!"... It's honestly what's on the inside that matters the most... When people don't like you for who you are, and all they care about is your outside appearance, it just screams "SHALLOW" and you should have better friends than that:)... goood luck!!
Gemini54
Mar 5, 2010, 01:42 AM
In some cultures many people have relationships with their first cousins. In Anglo societies this is often not acceptable, but it still happens.
Sixth cousin? Sounds pretty distant to me.
I'd say there is no problem with a friendship.
Larken85
Mar 5, 2010, 03:25 AM
6th cousins are not too close, my mother and step father are 6th cousins and their child came out fine. Ruining the friendship however is a serious threat. She has already told you that she loves you like family, that is how she thinks of you, that is how she will always think of you. Its not worth the rejection to try on this one in my opinion