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sambam111
Feb 28, 2010, 04:05 AM
I'm not over my first girlfriend and its been nearly 7months. Is there anyway to get over this faster. I'm 16

JoeCanada76
Feb 28, 2010, 04:08 AM
It will pass in time. Concentrate on school and projects and hang out with friends.

dynocompe
Feb 28, 2010, 04:11 AM
Well what have you been doing now to get over her? Don't know what you have been doing to know if there is a faster way! You can read the stickies at the top of this forum! They will tell you how to move on, instead of everyone repeating the same thing over and over!
But this takes time, and everyone is different! Just pick yourself up, make yourself a better person, and work hard, be successful. Your young with a huge life ahead of you. The harder you work on your life now, the simpler you will have it when your older!

sambam111
Feb 28, 2010, 04:14 AM
What have I been doing? Just hanging out with mates and stuff like that not much else.

redhed35
Feb 28, 2010, 04:20 AM
Keep no contact,if you have been talking through text,Facebook etc,stop.

Nc,is the most quick way to heal,it does take time,keeping busy as other posters have said helps.

dynocompe
Feb 28, 2010, 04:23 AM
I would join some organized activities, like sports, art classes, volunteering. Hanging out with mates is good. I would even hit the gym, exercising boosts ones self dramatically. You will feel so good with yourself after a workout, its very rewarding.

sambam111
Feb 28, 2010, 04:25 AM
Yeah I've been hitting the gym a fair bit and joined st john ambulance. Thanks heaps.

talaniman
Mar 2, 2010, 09:13 AM
Just keep doing what your doing and you'll get where you want to be.

Larken85
Mar 2, 2010, 09:16 AM
I was in the same boat as you once, it killed me and made me gain several pounds. I went from 135 to 185 lbs. huge weight gain. But it sounds like you may be doing a great job of avoiding that backlash. Keep up the good work and keep going to the gym. Since then I have lost 19 lbs. Have a good one and good luck with this.

Romefalls19
Mar 2, 2010, 10:39 AM
Keep going to gym, it will pass in time