For almost a month so far, I've known this girl, and so far, we've become very close. Sadly, the thing is we haven't seen each other in person, and profile pictures do not help that. What I mean is that I have met and talked to this girl on Facebook and on the phone, both texting and calling. It's sad, I know.

So now, I very much want to meet her in person. But the thing is, there are many problems that we are going to face when we do. First of all, she is very, very shy. She is so scared that when I see her, she would be too shy to even talk to me, and with that, she thinks that when I see her appearance, I won't like her the same way I do now.

Another obstacle that we will face is her parents. Honestly, I am 15 and she is either 13 or 14. We seem a young couple, eh? Well he parents think she is too young. The time her parents will allow her to date guys are at the age of 16...

So how did I meet her? Well we don't go to the same school, but I know her through my best friend's girlfriend. His girlfriend is my girl's best friend as well, if that makes sense... Well the thing is, she CANNOT meet me without her best friend, and she really does not feel comfortable around my best friend. I understand that about her. She is very shy, and my best friend can be weird at times. But she cannot be with her best friend, who is my bestfriend's girlfriend. Otherwise, she will be very shy, and might cry because she is too scared of the situation.

Lastly, my girl was even scared to say this. We live very, very far away. Anyone reading this, if you are familiar with Niles and Skokie, which are the suburbs of Chicago, IL. The distance from the suburbs to the city of Chicago are difficult to travel through. That's are final problem. It is very difficult for us to reach each other.

So if there is anybody who can help me out with this problem, I need the best out of this. I am sure I may not give up on this relationship just yet because I hope to make it out of the best that I can.

You don't even know how old she is so keep talking. How is she best friends with your friends if the distance is that great?

Sorry guy, as long as her parents don't allow her to date, and she isn't comfortable around your friends, your stuck with what you got.

Ok, well I'm in 9th grade, or freshman or whatever, and she's in 7th. Obviously I'm older. Also, I might have a slight chance to get around her parents. She goes to the same school as her best friend goes to, but I'm not sure how she ended up in that school because it's closer to me. She told me she moves around often so she probably had to move during the time she was in school and happened to be farther away when I met her.

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I while ago I met this girl, who I've become very very attached to. I won't go into too much detail though, but here's the problem: There is this kid, who somehow found out about her and I, and now, he will not stop making fun of her. This kid is known for being the biggest loser in the whole school (note: I don't not go to their school, also I cannot find time to be with her for now), yet he thinks he's the coolest, to me I've hated that kid since I met him, which was way before I met the girl. My girl cannot take it. She is crying, she is very sensitive, and right now she is at the point where she doesn't want me to talk to her ever again because of the way I might see her, which is described by the insults of that stupid kid. She is being called emo, a loner, and one with no life. Im literally going to kill the kid, but if I do, my girl will become even more upset because she never wanted anyone hurt in this whole thing. And telling him off wouldn't work either because he won't stop. I love her too much to never let her go. I will not leave her, and I need her to stop crying. But she gave in too much of the insults, and now Im in need of help.

Like I said: I won't ever let her go, because I love her. She thinks the same for me.

I understand I may sound pathetic, but that's just the way I am.

So, Can someone please help me of how to get this kid to stop? Or at least help me figure out a way to help her stop crying?

This loser,
Is as exactly as stated,
He's just jealous.
Most guys that do that to a girl are,
Tell her not to worry,
& not to let him bother her,
She could try and stand up for herself. But your going to have to coach her with that one.
It worked for me.
She shouldn't be threatened by a jerk like him && you tell her that.
There's really not much I can do,
Because if anyone did something like that to someone I loved, you best bet their face would be in the ground. But all people are different.
Sometimes if he see's that it doesn't bother her, They give up.
But once again.
This would be pretty difficult,