My grown daughter in the past abused precrip drugs other druges and drank she has been doing well but still makes me feel guilty, she borrowed my sons first car never gave it back had been getting tickets, and I stupidly put insc on it till I do not know when I told her she needed to chang the title she did not she got into an accadient and I had cancled the insc and she says her life is over because of me I should not of cancled it even though she had an acc in my truck I am paying for 6 months ago in jan I was in an acc and totaled my truck which I have to pay the price and not even a month later she gets into an acc in the car she has been driving and thinks I guess that I should lose my insc so she I guess can get out of her mess and know because she has no car is not letting my grandaughterr go to scool or stay with me so she can go to school I am so angry and don't know what I should do

You need to stop letting her walk over you. When she did not give car back, you should have called police, or went and just took car back. ( even had it towed home)

You are allowing her to take advantage of you.

What would I do, stop talking to her, tell her to come back when she is ready to say I am sorry, pay you back for the car and straighten her life out. Until then don't waste the phone call

Could you please use some punctuation and not abbreviate? It's really hard to read what you've written.

Don't be a doormat. Don't lend your daughter cars, money whatever.

Put some boundaries in place and let the police know she was the driver that caused the accident.

She is an adult. Let her take on adult responsibilities.