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whatisthis3
Feb 21, 2010, 06:09 PM
I'm in HS
So girl with boyfriend of two years
I told her I liked her
She likes me as well, she told me.
But she said she doesn't want anyone to get hurt me or him, and that our friendship is above everything else
And I told her I'm patient, and she should focus on her current relation ship.

What do I do now?

Scleros
Feb 21, 2010, 07:46 PM
You're already hurting, and with your admission you now have no cards left to play. You were rejected nicely. Find another gal. If this girl had strong feelings for you and was biding her time just waiting for you to make a move, hell or high water couldn't keep her away.

jmjoseph
Feb 21, 2010, 07:52 PM
Carry on with honor and respect for your fellow man.

You're off to a good start.

whatisthis3
Feb 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
Haha aren't you a hardware expert?

Scleros
Feb 21, 2010, 08:46 PM
Haha arent you a hardware expert?

Yes, and I seriously doubt your hardware is getting anywhere near hers. ;)

whatisthis3
Feb 21, 2010, 10:00 PM
Yes, and I seriously doubt your hardware is getting anywhere near hers. ;)

Wow my 16 year old friends told me the same joke too. And your how old?

Scleros
Feb 22, 2010, 02:21 PM
Ancient, but obvious opportunities for humor know no age boundaries.

Sally Olsen
Feb 22, 2010, 09:25 PM
Don't worry about her too much. You're both in HS and education is important. You are so kind to let her concern about her own relationship. Just support her and carry on with your school work... it'll work out in the end.

whatisthis3
Feb 22, 2010, 10:20 PM
It's humor "knows" no age.

Scleros
Feb 23, 2010, 10:42 AM
It's humor "knows" no age.

This is what happens chasing skirt instead of focusing on school.

Obvious - adjective
opportunities - noun, plural
For - preposition
Humor - object of preposition
know - verb

ChuLove19
Feb 23, 2010, 10:54 AM
i'm in HS
So girl with boyfriend of two years
I told her I liked her
She likes me as well, she told me.
but she said she doesnt want anyone to get hurt me or him, and that our friendship is above everything else
and i told her im patient, and she should focus on her current relation ship.

what do i do now?Okay. From a girls point of view, I was going through the same thing. A guy liked me for so long but I was with a different guy for 5 months, and he finely got the nerve to tell me that he likes me. I liked him as well of coarse because I knew him longer, But the point is I liked the friend longer and more and broke up with My boyfriend for him, but then the guy friend stopped talking to me afterwards. So like I said my point is, you should really think about it and make sure you truly like her because if not and she chooses to go with you and finds out that you just wanted her because she was with another man than I would leave it alone because you don't want things to affect your friendship.

whatisthis3
Feb 28, 2010, 07:13 PM
Anyway
I cuddled with her,
She said she felt guilty about it, and started to not talk to me.
Then she started to talk to me again, even more, then
I was with her this weekend, and we hugged a lot, and held hands with each other and stuff.
And she told me that she feels bad that she might be leading me on, and that I deserve someone who can fully commit, and I said I don't want anything more than this friendship.
What do I do now?