My boyfriend and I went out for a little over 2 months. Oh by the way I am in 8th grade. He and I would say hi and bye stuff like that to each other, we would hug. We were keeping our relationship a secret except for a few of our friends knew about it. We would talk at school when we could but we didn't really hang out much. We would text but our phones were broken and stuff so we couldn't. We both wanted to kiss each other but at first I didn't know he wanted to and he didn't know I wanted to so we never did. But anyway ever since we broke up not quite a month ago he and I talk a lot more then we did before. He is always talking about me to one of his best friends and she asked him if he thinks we would end up going back out and he said I don't know. But like a couple of weekends ago I got hurt at this party and he stayed by my side the whole time while I was waiting for my parents to come pick me up. Then he would keep asking me how my arm was when we got back to school and he would help me write and stuff like that. Then my friend who is also one of his best friends keeps saying that he care about me because if I like don't talk or when I text as little differently like it may seem like I have an attitude or something and stuff he thinks something's wrong and he is always asking is she okay or I think she is mad at me. So I am a little confused if he still likes me and I stopped liking him but now I am liking him again. Oh and the reason we broke up was because we hardly got to see each other and talk. What I want to know is does he still like or have feeling for me like I do him.

Call him?

Do you mind if I ask why you two broke up in the first place? Do you know if he's moved on from you yet?

You have to contact him (phone, e-mail, text) and just be honest with him about how you feel.

Not knowing what kind of a relationship you had with him or why you broke up makes it impossible to predict his reaction. If he's already moved on, you probably won't get a good reaction. That's a chance you'll take!

Call him and see.

The reason we broke up was because we never got to see each other and hang out that often. We also didn't get to talk a lot either. He and I text each other like all the time and I want to ask him or talk to him about us but I am just scared to.


I don't really know if he has moved on or not. It kind of seems like it but then it doesn't if that makes sense.

Seems to me you must overcome your fear, and just get the answers to your questions. But what has changed? Can you spend more time together now, than before? Or will it be text buddies, until things do change?

This is something you work out with your friend.

Yeah we can and do spend more time together, not just txt and talk every now and then

Do you honestly think if he didn't like you, that he would be spending time with you? Don't be so scared, and insecure, and relax, and enjoy what you have.

Okay thanks, but should I do it in text or actually tell him in person. Because I won't get to talk to him either till tomorrow or Tuesday, and I can't text him because he is over his limits for text messages he doesn't have unlimited text.

Had to translate this post to understand it. A MODS work is never done.

You can wait until you see him. There really is no hurry at all.

Oh and this might change some answers or something I am going to try to explain this as well as possible. When were outside at lunch and I am hanging aroung all my friends and some are guys. He stays around the area we are at with his friends and this one girl but it seems like he is watching me or something because my guy friends they always give hugs and it seems like every time one of my friends gives me a hug he is right there around somewhere. And the girl it kind of seems like he likes her but not sure.


Okay yeah I am not in a big hurry to tell him that lol

My only question is why haven't the two of you taken the opportunity to meet during lunch? He may be intimidated by all your guy friends, and may want to stick with his group, but is that not something to talk about?

When I tell my Ex boyfriend that I like him or still have feelings for him or whatever. If he likes me still, should I ask him out or let one of my guy friends that is also one of his best friends ask him out for me because he wants to.

How old are you? If you can't ask the guy out yourself, I don't think your old enough or mature enough to be dating

Hello Dani,

I would have to agree with the poster above... This is something you should do by yourself.

Yeah I already said I was going to do it myself so...

Hello again,

What's your question then?

Well I kind of just got confused so Never mind!

Hello again Danielle,

Maybe it was I that got it confused. So I am sorry for that. If you have figured it out, then I wish you luck. ;)

Enigma you never got nothing confused! I know you are just being nice anyway lol. I notice she never asnwered how old she was.. but its quite obvious

How old am I then? If its so obvious!

8th grade, and by the way, any more chat text or text talk will be deleted.

Were just not like that. We stay with our friends at lunch. I don't really know. Yeah thts what my friend keeps saying, the one who says that he cares about me, that he might be jealous or something. The other day after school he and I were just walking around the inside of the school and stuff,

Okay he and I were talking and stuff and I was about to tell him how I feel but I decided that it wasn't the right time. But know he and I don't talk anymore and I don't even know why. We talk maybe once evey 2 weeks. So now I don't know what to do.