Been seeing this guy for about three weeks. After our first date he wanted to have sex. I said no and things changed. Now he thinks I need to be in a committed relationship and he's not ready for that. Since then I have put myself out there plenty of times but all I get is the same " i dont want to hurt you" and I just want to be friends " But we kiss all the time He spent the night with me and just said he didn't feel like being alone, And he also has gotten jealous a few times but claims he's not. I like him a lot but I feel as if it's a game and I don't know the best way to handel this. Please respond with any suggestions, thanks

Been seeing this guy for about three weeks. After our first date he wanted to have sex. I said no and things changed. Now he thinks I need to be in a commited relationship and he's not ready for that. Since then I have put myself out there plenty of times but all I get is the same " i dont want to hurt you" and I just want to be friends " But we kiss all the time He spent the night with me and just said he didn't feel like being alone, And he also has gotten jealous a few times but claimes he's not. I like him alot but I feel as if its a game and I don't know the best way to handel this. Please respond with any suggestions, thanks
Read the book : HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU by Greg Behrendt. I don't want to be harsh but this guy was looking for sex from the start, right? And jealousy doesn't mean he likes you. It means he's a jealous guy. I say move on to a guy that will respect the fact that you don't want to have sex right away! He sounds like he sure has balls telling you he just "didnt feel like being alone". Says to me he's using you when he knows you don't want what he wants. Tell him to go be a player with someone else!!

Been seeing this guy for about three weeks. After our first date he wanted to have sex. I said no and things changed. Now he thinks I need to be in a commited relationship and he's not ready for that. Since then I have put myself out there plenty of times but all I get is the same " i dont want to hurt you" and I just want to be friends " But we kiss all the time He spent the night with me and just said he didn't feel like being alone, And he also has gotten jealous a few times but claimes he's not. I like him alot but I feel as if its a game and I don't know the best way to handel this. Please respond with any suggestions, thanks


Sherri, you need to log in with your own username and password! I used your computer this weekend at your house to check my advice and you're logging in under my name!!

All he wants is SEX SEX SEX...
Not a way to start a relationship!

No respect, are you prepared to be used like a piece of meat!

Sherri, TELL THE USER TO TAKE A HIKE, HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU, JUST WANTS SEX. I would move on to someone else.