I have a boyfriend and we're in the same classes (still in school). In the beginning, he was dating my friend. After they broke up, they were friends, but still had some feelings for each other. I didn't like him that much at the time, but after we started hanging out more, we became close friends. We even called ourselves "brother and sister". That's when I started liking him, but I never told anyone because I keep stuff like that to myself. Then one day, we were chatting on the computer, he suggested we be a couple. I didn't mind, because at the time, I only cared on the fact that he liked me back. He acts different now ever since that day. He makes playful insults at me, but sometimes they can be hurtful. He barely calls or text me after school, or on the weekends. I found out he does with my friend (his ex), and other people. This one situtation, it was almost V-day and my friend(his ex) and him were textin me like crazy. She was saying that he loved me and wanted me to be his valentine. But he just kept saying he didn't like me in no way. That just made me cry to think that he wanted us to be togther, and now he saying I don't like u, just it has to do with his ex. But the thing I hate is when he tells people different things. Like on day he says were a couple, next day he says were not, and the next he says we are. I'm barely in relationships, because I don't like mind games like this. I like kind of love him in a way, but hate what he does. He tells me he loves me, but in my head I always say "i can't tell". It seems as though he doesn't take this relationship seriously. I don't like having a broke heart, but I don't like mind games. Should I just break up with him?

How long have you guys sum what been a couple? And my boyfriend and I now had a couple of those problems... sum of the insults he means as a playful joke.. bt telling you he doesn't like you and telling peoplee you aren't together is not cool at all.. no girl deserves to be treated like that. And hun if he is textin his ex instead of you. That means he still has feelings for her.. do not let him treat you like that.. you shuld talk to him about it... or tell him straight up hey either change or get ta steppin... if it was me I would break up with him... seems like he is playing you.. but it isn't my choice its yours.. but don't let him make you feel like crap and don't let him get the opportunity to keep hurting you.. set him straight

How old are you?
I suggest you talk to him about your issues rather than listen to other people's gossip.

He is the type of person who doesn't know what he wants, and is playing you off against his girlfriend.

Either way, he's being dishonest to both of you, and for some strange reason, this works- for him.

My advice is, skip him and his games, and don't lose your friend over him.

Tell him what you have told us and see what happens. To not tell your partner how you feel about things is not a great way to be in a relationship.

I think this is not love, that boy is not a person of your type. As you said , u are emotional kind of person but he back stab u every time , so instead of crying for him all day its better to find a person who really cares you, loves you... see you can't force someone to be your friend or couple, if he doesn't respect you or your feeling why you are thinking of him to change himself? Find a real good person...